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what do you do at 4am when u can't sleep

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  • Mind your own business!
  • Alias_Omega
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    Usually watch the clock, calculating how many minutes/seconds there are to go before i have to get up for work. Then usually calculate it totally wrong as im laying on my side, and the clock is horizontal. I tend to then listen out to the quiet house, and anything that is outside. I often fall back to sleep to be awoke feeling like i have "only just fallen asleep". If the phone comes out, i usually have a few emails that need deleting and then im awake after that..

    For me, i get up at 05:30, and set off to work at 06:30 (work starts at 07:30)...
  • Marvel1
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    Get up, watch a film or play on the PS4.
  • Tea and toast and read my book, or, if I have an early start, a tall glass of water (not icy cold though.)

    Sometimes, if it's an early start ahead of me, and I wake in the night, I'll leave the lamp on. That makes waking up a bit later on feel less harsh.
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  • Make a cup of tea, read a book. It's worse if you worry about it.
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  • brianh
    brianh Posts: 64 Forumite
    Will try to just relax in bed (can usually cope next day with relaxation and a cat nap) but on the odd occasion I can't will get up and watch a little TV and/or log on to betting exchange (my hobby) for interest.
  • It wasn't a case of waking up at 4 am it was a case of never getting to sleep in the first place. I also woke at 6 and then again 9, so sleep when it did come was fitful. Also getting significant headaches, despite taking paracetamol/ antidepressants/ other psych meds, so I know I'm stressed and have been for the last 5 months.I have access to mental health services but am not suicidal or an urgent case. Manic maybe. I have an appointment with the psychiatrist end of February.
  • Lucyxx
    Lucyxx Posts: 3,147 Forumite
    I have the opposite problem and sleep too much, but this past couple of weeks while I've been up coughing I have sat on my phone on the Internet. Not necessarily the best idea!

    When I used to be a manager in my old job I would find myself not sleeping thinking of things needing sorting out the next day. I found writing a list before bed (and I still do it now I am home more with housework jobs/admin) Made it feel like it was getting it out of my brain and onto paper so I knew things wouldn't be forgotten and were in some sort of order and I fell asleep easily.

    Maybe writing down what is troubling you in a list before bed, what you need to do to overcome it (if the situation means you can) etc might work the same?? Good luck :) xxx
  • martinbuckley
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    Going downstairs and putting the TV on with something I have recorded and really want to watch guarantees I'm asleep within 5 minutes!
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