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Divorce Decree Help *URGENT*

Hello,
My name is Laura and my husband to be has been divorced since before 2005 and he belives it was in Texas I tried to find it through Vital Statics I was able to find the marriage that happend in 2000 but I was not able to find the divorce.

His ex wife got re-married in 2005 and got divorced in 2010 which we found out through the help of his brother & sister we tried find her divorce in 2010 and were unable to find that as well.

The point is that she was able to re-marry and we want to get married before the end of Feburary 2017

He has not had contact with his ex wife since for over 10 years and has no idea where she would be living now or anything of that nature but it did come up as her name as a different last name from her maiden name or his last name when i tried to search for his using other website's.

I was reading up that Vital Statics could even find a Divorce in Texas if he was living somewhere else like say Minnesota for example and would be able to get it for him, Is this correct?

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  • Diary
    Diary Posts: 591 Forumite
    YunaAngelz wrote: »
    Hello,
    My name is Laura and my husband to be has been divorced since before 2005 and he belives it was in Texas I tried to find it through Vital Statics I was able to find the marriage that happend in 2000 but I was not able to find the divorce.

    His ex wife got re-married in 2005 and got divorced in 2010 which we found out through the help of his brother & sister we tried find her divorce in 2010 and were unable to find that as well.

    The point is that she was able to re-marry and we want to get married before the end of Feburary 2017

    He has not had contact with his ex wife since for over 10 years and has no idea where she would be living now or anything of that nature but it did come up as her name as a different last name from her maiden name or his last name when i tried to search for his using other website's.

    I was reading up that Vital Statics could even find a Divorce in Texas if he was living somewhere else like say Minnesota for example and would be able to get it for him, Is this correct?

    What's the urgency to get married before February? Can it not wait until all this is sorted out. His wife marrying is irrelevant to you as you should be absolutely.sure he's not committing bigamy. Is he American?
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  • YunaAngelz
    YunaAngelz Posts: 4 Newbie
    edited 24 December 2016 at 12:11PM
    Yes he is an American Citizen let me copy and post what I found on her I will take her last name out for purposes though.

    LANGE, M who was 19 (born ABT 1981) married 31 JAN 2000 in BRAZOS COUNTY, TEXAS, U.S.A. a groom named FAFARD, D to be who was 32 (born ABT 1968). 864036


    LANGE, M who was 19 (born ABT 1981) married 15 SEP 2005 in BRAZOS COUNTY, TEXAS, U.S.A. a groom named J Miller who was 22 (born ABT 1983). 864037
  • Find her on Facebook through family members friends lists if he needs to contact her?
  • Diary wrote: »
    What's the urgency to get married before February? ?

    My 6 months visit would be up in Feburary as I am a Canadian Citizen.

    And no were not marrying just because of that.

    We are marrying because we both trully love each other with all of our hearts, and want to spend the rest of our life's together.

    I don't know what I would do without him if i had to go back to Canada I have fallen deeply in love with him and don't ever want to be without him.
  • Rachel83 wrote: »
    Find her on Facebook through family members friends lists if he needs to contact her?

    I tried searching both her maiden name and her new married name myself and there are about 20 by her name if not more, I have his family in contact with her.

    And I think he still has her father on his messages I will ask him once he wakes up
  • Jenniefour
    Jenniefour Posts: 1,399 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    OP, I'm not sure you are in the UK. If you're in the USA then there are probably better local forums there.
  • LilElvis
    LilElvis Posts: 5,835 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    If you are in the US then get married in Nevada - no need to prove that he is divorced in order to obtain a marriage license.
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