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I have been on here for about 2 years off and on and I was doing well getting my debt down and feeling much better. Earlier this year my husband lost his job and was out of work for 6 weeks. He then had to go away for 8 weeks training which meant although he had accommodation and travel covered he still had the expense of food etc whilst there which living from a hotel for 8 weeks is expensive anyway because he had to go away for 8 weeks I had to leave my job as they wouldnt keep it open for me for that long. Im self employed now and my income varies however we are back upto the 24k mark now. I know what I need to do but my head isnt in the right place to do it. Christmas approaching and birthdays galore, my kids are needing clothes and shoes! I need a kick up the backside!!

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  • *kick*

    Do you want to make an SOA and have advice, or do you want sympathy for hotel living? (he says while stuck in a hotel in the second most boring city on Earth)
  • National_Debtline
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    Hi Autumn2012,


    People often find debt overwhelming and sometimes getting started is the hardest part. A SOA is the best place to start, factor in a budget for Christmas and clothes for the kids etc. but try and be practical. Consider what you can spend rather than what you would like to spend. It can sometimes be harder to start dealing with things if you have convinced yourself you 'can't' have something - you can - it's just that things need to be in proportion. There are loads of tips online, and on the forum, about keeping the cost of Christmas down, have a look at what might suit you to help you.


    Once you have your new SOA you can weigh up your choices, and think about whether you are going to negotiate to repay the debts yourself, or use a free DMP to help or would you be able to consider insolvency options. Good luck,


    Laura
    @natdebtline
    We work as money advisers for National Debtline and have specific permission from MSE to post to try to help those in debt. Read more information on National Debtline in MSE's Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help guide. If you find you're struggling with debt and need further help try our online advice tool My Money Steps
  • Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 400
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1460
    Benefits................................ 420
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2280

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 275
    Council tax............................. 110
    Electricity............................. 80
    Gas..................................... 40
    Water rates............................. 50
    Telephone (land line)................... 17.40 (includes internet, in contract)
    Mobile phone............................ 40
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Groceries etc. ......................... 260
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 120
    Road tax................................ 3
    Car Insurance........................... 63
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 30
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 30
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 17
    Life assurance ......................... 25
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 40
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1252


    Assets
    Cash.................................... 1000
    House value (Gross)..................... 105000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1....6500
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 112000


    Secured & HP Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    Mortgage...................... 64200........275........0
    Secured Debt.........................0
    Total secured & HP debts............-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly.. .APR
    Santander Loan............5750......230...............
    Hitachi Loan.................4800.......260................
    Car..............................6650........220...............
    My Barclaycard...........600........20................29.9
    Hubby Barclaycard......2650.......80..............18.9
    Santander CC..............2130......25................18.9
    MBNA..........................2100.......25...............27.9

    Total unsecured debts........................- 24680


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 2280
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2102
    Available for debt repayments........... 172
  • Actually you're in pretty good order.

    First, take a breath - your husband went away for a while and your expenses increased. This is what the emergency buffer is for... but as it's still there, you didn't use it as intended and borrowed instead. So:

    i) Use the £1000 cash savings to pay off your Barclaycard (£600) and £400 of the MBNA card. Don't close one of the cards and let this function as your emergency (boiler go boom) buffer.
    ii) Increase your payments to MBNA by the £172 unaccounted money - effectively £200/month. This will be paid off in 10 months.
    iii) Everything else put into stoozing.com's snowball calculator. I reckon you'd pay Hubby's BC, then Santander, then MBNA for credit cards. Then rebuild your cash emergency buffer. Then tackle the loans.
  • Thanks! I think I'm in a terrible mess but that makes sense! I just need to buckle down and do it now!
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