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left work due to insult

Hi,

I have been working for a company for 15 months.

I was called something derogatory that I would border on being criminal. I was a manager and was called this in front of about 5 of my staff with no foundation. I made a complaint to my boss that I wasn't happy what they had said. They apologised but since that time we haven't really got on that well until the time I thought I'd had enough and gave my notice in with immediate effect.

Now shall I just forget about this or do I have any rights?

Thanks in advance.

John
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  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    john9999 wrote: »
    Hi,

    I have been working for a company for 15 months.

    I was called something derogatory that I would border on being criminal. I was a manager and was called this in front of about 5 of my staff with no foundation. I made a complaint to my boss that I wasn't happy what they had said. They apologised but since that time we haven't really got on that well until the time I thought I'd had enough and gave my notice in with immediate effect.

    Now shall I just forget about this or do I have any rights?

    Thanks in advance.

    John
    Maybe a criminal prosecution, but I doubt you have a constructive dismissal case. It depends I suppose in part to what was said
  • ohreally
    ohreally Posts: 7,525 Forumite
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    Why didn't you deal with the individual at the time?
    Don’t be a can’t, be a can.
  • ohreally wrote: »
    Why didn't you deal with the individual at the time?

    This was my manager. I did deal with it by telling them I was offended. I couldn't go any higher apart from HR but I thought I would give them a chance. Unfortunately things got worse.

    Thanks
  • ohreally
    ohreally Posts: 7,525 Forumite
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    john9999 wrote: »
    This was my manager.

    You should have prosecuted a grievance.
    Don’t be a can’t, be a can.
  • Yes I know i should have.

    My manager would have had this in the back of there mind knowing I could have raised a grievance at any time. I think this is why they made my life slightly more difficult day by day.
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    15 months in you probably would've been sacked
  • Guest101 wrote: »
    15 months in you probably would've been sacked

    This was also my worry too.
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    Best bet is probably a quick letter, if not go to the papers, and then move on
  • SailorSam
    SailorSam Posts: 22,754 Forumite
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    I'm sure none of us like being called anything derogatory, but i don't think many would walk away from a decent job. Water-off-a-ducks-back, is the way to go.
    Liverpool is one of the wonders of Britain,
    What it may grow to in time, I know not what.

    Daniel Defoe: 1725.
  • Unless you're a sensitive soul, i wouldn't advise you leave a job based on an insult and what colleagues (who are not even friends) say.

    You've kinda self-inflicted the second blow there
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