Need help

rbfinland

Hello Everyone ,

So I have got a bit of debt , around 7,000 euros on a credit card, it has been driving me crazy with very little sleep and making my colitis much more worse with the stress.

I have not told my wife but have written a letter about it to her today, but I have now hidden it like every credit card bill I get and have pulled out of making this the day that I tell her as she does not deserve this worry.

I feel depressed and just sit around all the time not wanting to take part in family outings and going out.

What should I do ??

Thanks

MyLastFiver

If it were the other way round, and your wife told you she'd built up some debt on a credit card, how would you react? How would you feel if she told you she'd been hiding bills, and getting worried and depressed?

Now go and tell her!

Good luck

Spoonhead88

Tell your wife
Write down where you spend all your money on a monthly basis and try and find places you can cut back spending.
Take the money that you have gained from cutting back and pay off the credit card.

andyfromotley

Hi RB,

please tell your wife. Whatever your reaction you will feel better. I think the reason that you are feeling so unwell may be the pressure of this secrecy.