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Cluelessmee123
Cluelessmee123 Posts: 1 Newbie
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  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    Forget him, he isn't going to be the perfect father for your child, he can't make up his mind now.

    Close down your social media, if all you get is abuse. Plus spending time searching for things people say, what he says, not going to help you at all.

    Your doing this alone, your not the first and not the last, and yes you can do it.

    Just another thought, if you come across as needy then perhaps that is what is putting him off, but even if that is the case, he seems not interested, he had what he wanted, no protection was used, you now have to live with the result.

    Don't forget to get CSA involved as soon as baby is born.

    Also don't use the baby as a weapon, really don't it's not smart, it's not clever, just concentrate on being the best mum you can be.
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  • .j.e.j
    .j.e.j Posts: 161 Forumite
    Mupette wrote: »
    Don't forget to get CSA involved as soon as baby is born.

    I second this ^^

    Having to actually pay for any babies he makes might help stop his seemingly cavalier attitude towards sex and contraception.
    I'm back.. :D:D

    (lost my password/email to my old account!)
  • .j.e.j
    .j.e.j Posts: 161 Forumite
    Please delete

    Gist of it was, in case anyone's wondering, bloke's got her pregnant, then 2 months later got someone else pregnant. Doesn't want anything to do with her now, but is standing by the other woman. Oh yeah and she's getting abuse on FaceBook.
    I'm back.. :D:D

    (lost my password/email to my old account!)
  • SaLoGo
    SaLoGo Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    This should have been on Jeremy Kyle not MSE :rotfl:
    :beer: Been smoke free for 4 years!! :beer:
  • .j.e.j
    .j.e.j Posts: 161 Forumite
    SaLoGo wrote: »
    This should have been on Jeremy Kyle not MSE :rotfl:

    I feel a meme coming on.. :D

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    I'm back.. :D:D

    (lost my password/email to my old account!)
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