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Is partner liable for my student loan?

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  • TrustyOven
    TrustyOven Posts: 746 Forumite
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    Puddylove wrote: »
    Quite simply, I don't believe you.
    And the OP explained that the reason she has no income is because she is a 'stay at home mum' so perhaps further education might have helped your comprehension skills....:rotfl:

    One could also argue that, by looking after the children, she is freeing her partner to earn and pay tax back into the system.

    I'm so sick of men whining that they have to pay child support, or that the govt has to defer SLC repayments because a woman is looking after her (their) children. Perhaps men should step up a bit more, and share joint custody thus freeing the woman to work, and developing a better relationship with their offspring?

    Gah.

    Well, it was a stressfull day and I mis-read / skimmed OPs post, so that's my fault really. Apologies.

    But please don't turn into a misandrist. There's enough hate in this world already.

    You have good points above. :)
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  • andyfromotley
    andyfromotley Posts: 2,038 Forumite
    Puddylove wrote: »
    Quite simply, I don't believe you.
    And the OP explained that the reason she has no income is because she is a 'stay at home mum' so perhaps further education might have helped your comprehension skills....:rotfl:

    One could also argue that, by looking after the children, she is freeing her partner to earn and pay tax back into the system.

    I'm so sick of men whining that they have to pay child support, or that the govt has to defer SLC repayments because a woman is looking after her (their) children. Perhaps men should step up a bit more, and share joint custody thus freeing the woman to work, and developing a better relationship with their offspring?

    Gah.

    I already do thanks very much, but thanks for tarring me with your big sexist brush stroke.
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  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    Puddylove wrote: »

    I'm so sick of men whining that they have to pay child support, or that the govt has to defer SLC repayments because a woman is looking after her (their) children. Perhaps men should step up a bit more, and share joint custody thus freeing the woman to work, and developing a better relationship with their offspring?

    Gah.

    I see no indication that people would have complained less had this ben a stay-at-home father.
  • Puddylove
    Puddylove Posts: 507 Forumite
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    ViolaLass wrote: »
    I see no indication that people would have complained less had this ben a stay-at-home father.

    'Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence'.
  • Puddylove
    Puddylove Posts: 507 Forumite
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    TrustyOven wrote: »
    Well, it was a stressfull day and I mis-read / skimmed OPs post, so that's my fault really. Apologies.

    But please don't turn into a misandrist. There's enough hate in this world already.

    You have good points above. :)

    Thank you.
    And no, I like men just fine, especially if they actively pursue equality.

    :beer:
  • Puddylove
    Puddylove Posts: 507 Forumite
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    I already do thanks very much, but thanks for tarring me with your big sexist brush stroke.

    My big, accurate, misandrist brushstroke, if you don't mind! :D

    http://www.fatherhoodinstitute.org/2016/uk-mums-and-dads-are-worst-in-developed-world-at-sharing-childcare/
  • Angry_Bear
    Angry_Bear Posts: 2,021 Forumite
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    Puddylove wrote: »
    I suspect that women doctors, dentists and engineers are just as likely to reproduce as those from 'humanities' or 'arts'.
    I suspect (with absolutely no data or evidence to back it up :p) that women in those careers are much less likely to give up their career to be a stay-at-home parent.
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  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    Puddylove wrote: »
    'Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence'.

    Indeed, nor did I claim it was. However, accusations of sexism in this thread involve just as little evidence.
  • robin58
    robin58 Posts: 2,802 Forumite
    Claws back in people and answer the OP's question.
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    How little I know.!! ;)
  • shortcrust
    shortcrust Posts: 2,697 Forumite
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    If you don't believe what someone says on here then try to prove them wrong. We're not writing essays and we don't have to give our references. "Show me your reference" is just a quick was to derail a discussion. As by the way is the use of this >>>>:rotfl: after every post and phrases such as 'You're cute'.

    For what it's worth:

    Medicine and dentistry grads less then 1% unemployed.

    http://www.forbes.com/sites/nickmorrison/2015/07/03/the-best-and-worst-degree-subjects-if-you-want-a-job/#4c31d24053fd

    Civil Engineering and Mech Engineering grads top employment table.

    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/universityeducation/11943223/Record-number-of-graduates-in-work-report-reveals.html

    Average graduate salaries.

    http://www.savethestudent.org/student-jobs/whats-the-expected-salary-for-your-degree.html#engineering
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