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stevemcol
stevemcol Posts: 1,666 Forumite
edited 21 July 2016 at 8:15PM in Public transport & cycling
Had a puncture tonight and was fixing at the side of the road. Seven cyclists passed me in three seperate groups. Not one asked me if I was OK. When did that become the new cycling etiquette?
Apparently I'm 10 years old on MSE. Happy birthday to me...etc
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  • brat
    brat Posts: 2,533 Forumite
    Hope not. We rely on looking after each other.
    Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler.
  • Johnmcl7
    Johnmcl7 Posts: 2,839 Forumite
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    Did you need help or indicate to the groups you wanted help?

    I wouldn't stop for a cyclist at the side of the road if it looked like they were fixing a puncture and weren't indicating they needed help nor would I expect a cyclist to stop for me in the same situation. If someone has a mechanical as part of the group I'm in, we'd stop and help if needed but that's because we're cycling as a group and not leaving someone behind to have to catch up.

    John
  • You've got to use the international "Cyclist in Distress" gesture....

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    ....Then run like a flamingo on Ritalin.
  • stevemcol
    stevemcol Posts: 1,666 Forumite
    I didn't expect or want anyone to stop. What would have been nice would be an "OK mate?" as they rode past. I always do.
    Apparently I'm 10 years old on MSE. Happy birthday to me...etc
  • Norman_Castle
    Norman_Castle Posts: 11,871 Forumite
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    edited 22 July 2016 at 3:25PM
    You probably looked like you knew what you were doing. If you looked like you needed help its likely it would have been offered.
  • Nasqueron
    Nasqueron Posts: 10,723 Forumite
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    If someone is stopped and clearly changing a puncture then I won't offer help as I take it they know what they are doing, it's a bit different if they're sat there - that said I have limited tools on the bike and I'm not that good on bike mechanicals so limited what I can do beyond lend a phone

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    People are rich because they spend less money. A poor man buys $10 boots that last a season or two before he's walking in wet shoes and has to buy another pair. A rich man buys $50 boots that are made better and give him 10 years of dry feet. The poor man has spent $100 over those 10 years and still has wet feet.

  • rdr
    rdr Posts: 413 Forumite
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    I always ask if they need help
  • daivid
    daivid Posts: 1,286 Forumite
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    Always ask, and have always been asked. I'm lucky to live in an area that has long been popular for cycling so perhaps the etiquette is more established?
  • esuhl
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    The only time I was asked was when I was stopped on someone's driveway and the house owner rushed out to offer his air line to reinflate my tyre. Everyone else on bikes just rides past.

    If someone is fixing their bike, I probably would assume they're okay. If they are just standing there, walking with their bike, or looking around, I'd always check they were okay.

    Last summer, I saw a woman in a group, struggling to push a big, heavy e-bike with a puncture. I offered to help fix it, but they explained they'd found it impossible to remove the rear wheel as you need special tools due to the hub motor. The woman was really annoyed -- it was her first trip out on the e-bike, which she'd bought so she could do a bit of gentle exercise without being left behind by the other non-e-cyclists. Dragging it home with a flat looked like more exercise than she'd ever expected to do in her life!
  • Johnmcl7
    Johnmcl7 Posts: 2,839 Forumite
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    daivid wrote: »
    Always ask, and have always been asked. I'm lucky to live in an area that has long been popular for cycling so perhaps the etiquette is more established?

    I don't see it as bad etiquette not to ask if someone needs help if there's no indication they want it, personally I'd prefer people didn't ask for help if I was in the same situation because if I wanted help I'd make it clear I did - having everyone going by asking if I'm ok when I'm just trying to get on with a repair without cursing too much at my bike would just annoy me.

    If there was an indication the person needed help I wouldn't hesitate to stop and in some cases I've gone home, got my car and taken a stranger home but not for people who were clearly fine.

    John
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