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Cohabiting benefits stop worry

Hi.

I've been on ESA for a number of years due to long term mental health reasons.

I was living alone for a long time but recently my girlfriend and I decided to move in together.

We found a place and moved in last month. Now I knew my previous claim for housing benefit would have to stop due to me cohabiting, so I contacted the council benefits dept and gave my reasons, updated all my details to the new flat and ended my claim, all done by the book.

I then went looking for a change of address form for my ESA on the .gov website, which I thought I'd found, so I filled it out but no confirmation came through.

So worried that my details weren't up to date, I just rang the JCP and explained i needed to update my details with the new address.

So halfway through the form - to my horror, the guy says "You do realise they'll stop your claim?" To which I obviously said "NO??"

How can this be? Sure, my girlfriend works full time, but that doesn't mean she earns enough to support two people. Surely there must be something I can do? I mean we're struggling as it is with me only having limited income from my benefits to put towards rent - I'm unable to pay half as it is, but if and when they completely stop my claim, it is without any shadow of a doubt going to mean we can't continue living together and we'll both have to leave the home we just set up together.

Is there anything I can do?

Thanks.

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