Elite 11+ shopping and chat thread

altojack

cjj wrote: »

Just when my life seems to be looking up I've just had the most awful set back. So scarred at the minute. I'm dreading getting through the night alone xx

Please cjj, if you have family with you, talk to them. They will support you, so don't be daft thinking you are a burden because YOU ARE NOT. Just do it, without to much more thinking. You'll be surprised how mych it will help you ((hugs)) xx

cjj_2

altojack wrote: »

Please cjj, if you have family with you, talk to them. They will support you, so don't be daft thinking you are a burden because YOU ARE NOT. Just do it, without to much more thinking. You'll be surprised how mych it will help you ((hugs)) xx

Thanks AJ but through the night I cannot burden anyone xx

its_a_secret_66

Cjj sending you big hugs. Please either keeping talking to us, or pick up the phone to anyone who you feel you can turn to. Everyone is here for you. No one minds being called upon when someone is troubled, they would mind you not turning to them in your hour of need.
Failing that try to do a lovely thing maybe nice warm bath with a hot chocolate, or put on one of your favourite movies, crack open a nice box of chocolates.

Please please just remember you are treasured and important

cjj_2

its_a_secret_66 wrote: »

Cjj sending you big hugs. Please either keeping talking to us, or pick up the phone to anyone who you feel you can turn to. Everyone is here for you. No one minds being called upon when someone is troubled, they would mind you not turning to them in your hour of need.
Failing that try to do a lovely thing maybe nice warm bath with a hot chocolate, or put on one of your favourite movies, crack open a nice box of chocolates.

Please please just remember you are treasured and important

Thank-you so much for your kind supportive words xx

elliemoo

cjj wrote: »

Just when my life seems to be looking up I've just had the most awful set back. So scarred at the minute. I'm dreading getting through the night alone xx

Please be kind to yourself.

BarleySugar

Cjj,

You've been such an inspiration over the last few months, but good times never last forever. If you've hit a bad patch, try to remember you've been there before and got through it to see good times again.

The night will pass. We're here for you.

Big hugs.

cjj_2

BarleySugar wrote: »

Cjj,

You've been such an inspiration over the last few months, but good times never last forever. If you've hit a bad patch, try to remember you've been there before and got through it to see good times again.

The night will pass. We're here for you.

Big hugs.

You are right Barley, I will hang onto the fact that I've been here before & got through. Going to go to bed now & see if I can sleep. Thank-you all, such an amazing bunch of people xx

elliemoo

cjj wrote: »

You are right Barley, I will hang onto the fact that I've been here before & got through. Going to go to bed now & see if I can sleep. Thank-you all, such an amazing bunch of people xx

Hopefully you will get some sleep.

Sunshinemummy

cjj wrote: »

They know I'm not right but there is nothing they can do to help me. My mind is torturing me xx

I do not know any body who is 'right'. I love people for their individuality/quirks/difference....... including you!

But if the thoughts are running around, you do need to figure out how to process them. Everyone has some dark thoughts. I find that if I keep physically active, that I can begin to process things. One day something can seen extremely important. The next day that appears irrelevant, and something else replaces it.

its_a_secret_66 wrote: »

Cjj sending you big hugs. Please either keeping talking to us, or pick up the phone to anyone who you feel you can turn to. Everyone is here for you. No one minds being called upon when someone is troubled, they would mind you not turning to them in your hour of need.
Failing that try to do a lovely thing maybe nice warm bath with a hot chocolate, or put on one of your favourite movies, crack open a nice box of chocolates.

Please please just remember you are treasured and important

Very good advice. I would add, put music on loud and dance like you did when you were a teenager... x

its_a_secret_66

cjj wrote: »

You are right Barley, I will hang onto the fact that I've been here before & got through. Going to go to bed now & see if I can sleep. Thank-you all, such an amazing bunch of people xx

Sleep well. Please let us know you are okay in the morning