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Terminal illness

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  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    Hope you managed to get sorted, or at least a pathway throu.

    We lost dad on Friday, to say it was a shock, as earlier in the week he had a good few days, had a bad turn Thurs ngt, doctor / ambulance ...

    He was on his way to the hospice - he hadnt left the house.

    ........
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    Thinking ahead - check out for your mother what she can claim (depending on her age and any benefits claimed now) -
    https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments/overview
    https://www.gov.uk/bereavement-allowance/eligibility
    https://www.gov.uk/bereavement-payment

    Most people find the weeks after a death very difficult so anything you can learn about or sort out in advance will make things easier.

    Never a truer word said xxx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • boo_star
    boo_star Posts: 3,202 Forumite
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    Bedsit_Bob wrote: »
    I don't think he'd be allowed to take out a funeral plan, given his situation.

    He could pay for the funeral in advance, but it would be fairly immoral to do so (and somewhat macabre.)
  • Diane_H
    Diane_H Posts: 258 Forumite
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    mum2one wrote: »
    Hope you managed to get sorted, or at least a pathway throu.

    We lost dad on Friday, to say it was a shock, as earlier in the week he had a good few days, had a bad turn Thurs ngt, doctor / ambulance ...

    He was on his way to the hospice - he hadnt left the house.

    ........
    I have no practical advice to offer, just to say that I am so sorry for your loss, and send you MSE hugs xx
    2017 wins: *optimist*
  • boo_star wrote: »
    He could pay for the funeral in advance, but it would be fairly immoral to do so (and somewhat macabre.)

    Why would it be immoral :huh:
  • redpete
    redpete Posts: 4,738 Forumite
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    Bedsit_Bob wrote: »
    Why would it be immoral :huh:
    Because it is using someone else's money that they lend you expecting to get it back but you know you would never pay back.
    loose does not rhyme with choose but lose does and is the word you meant to write.
  • When you said "pay for the funeral in advance", I though you meant use your own money, to pre-pay your own funeral.
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