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Help me sort out OH please!!!
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Oh My Good God! what CC is that at 39.9% APR. Please let me know so i will know to stay well clear.0
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Its a *special* one for people trying to rebuild their credit history....:eek:
From Vanquis, love 'em!'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
SarahNeedle1872 wrote: »Its a *special* one for people trying to rebuild their credit history....:eek:
From Vanquis, love 'em!
By the time he'd paid it - all of his sins would have dropped off anyway."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
While we on the subject of naughty OH's (mine won't settle for any bribe less than a new land rover discovery 3, which won't fit where I want to shove it), although we have joint accounts for everything all the cc's are in my name. Due to me being **rsed to pay the bills. Can he apply for a cc, as I can't seem to get any more to get 0%.Can we then transfer my balances to his card? can't think how else to get a 0% card to be a tart.unsecured Debts at [strike]August 2007 £79,984[/strike] September £79,579 [STRIKE]Snowballing date July 2013[/STRIKE].
May 2009, £76,772 unsecured debts
DMP started Dec 2008, End date at start 2133!0 -
Well it looks like I've missed my chance.... the lightbulb has blown this morning!
OH realised this morning that not only does he have no money, but he now owes me £140 for paying his bills (even tho I said I wouldn't - :mad: at myself!)... and apparently its my fault
He said that I over exaggerated the cost of the bills this month and took more money from him than I should - I showed him the bloody spreadsheet :mad:.
He also decided that he wan't back his 'half' of all the Xmas/birthday/car ins money that we paid on over the last couple of months (only I paid in this last month)
So I said fine..... I took out what money was left in his acc that I put there yesterday, so his Sky bill will bounce in a couple of days time - tough!
I also worked out that after all the spends, he had £180 coming to him, but as he owed me £100 for the phone bill, plus he'll need to pay £55 Sky.... that doesn't leave him much at all
If he wants to throw his weight around, thats fine - buts he's throwing it in the wrong direction!
Sarah x'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
Hi Sarah!
Be Strong! I know it's frustrating sometimes but it will be sooo worth it!
Sounds like you're a tough cookie so keep in there girl :TTescoMum :-)
Always Ask Yourself...Do I Really Need It?
If Not then Sell It!
Even Better - Don't buy it in the First Place :-)0 -
Men eh :rolleyes:
My father is exactly the same Sarah, one minute he's almost co-operative and then the next day he's going mental that there's no money.
Sometimes tough love is the only way to do it. I took his Sky Sports away That caused some major agro No longer using this account for new posts from 20130 -
Hi Sarah!
Be Strong! I know it's frustrating sometimes but it will be sooo worth it!
Sounds like you're a tough cookie so keep in there girl :TTescoMum :-)
Always Ask Yourself...Do I Really Need It?
If Not then Sell It!
Even Better - Don't buy it in the First Place :-)0 -
Hi Sarah!
Be Strong! I know it's frustrating sometimes but it will be sooo worth it!
Sounds like you're a tough cookie so keep in there girl :T
Thanks TescoMum, I need to be tough with this one!
The light may well be flickering a bit again..... I told OH today that I was going to transfer all the household DDs into his name, give him all my money, and let him sort the household out!:eek: was his response.... te he he
He has gone out tonight, and I have asked him to seriously think about how he wants things to work, does he want me to be 'in charge' of the money or not? I will wait with baited (sp?) breath to see what the answer is!
Pay day is week tomorrow and already he owes me £177 ... altho his DS1 is over this weekend, so no doubt he will want more :mad: AND its FIL's b/day on Sunday, prezzie not bought yet, and we're going out to a local pub for a meal - something tells me the IOU figure will grow somewhat! I shall make sure I get that back!
Can't imagine he'll be making a massive dent in his CC debt either :mad: Not that it especially matters, as he gave me his cards to 'look after' and there might have been an 'accident' with a CC and a pair of scissors :rolleyes:
Anyways, thats enough of me moaning about my OH - I do :grinheart him really!'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde0 -
While we on the subject of naughty OH's (mine won't settle for any bribe less than a new land rover discovery 3, which won't fit where I want to shove it),
You're not trying hard enough.although we have joint accounts for everything all the cc's are in my name. Due to me being **rsed to pay the bills. Can he apply for a cc, as I can't seem to get any more to get 0%.Can we then transfer my balances to his card?
Yes."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0
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