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Getting married - my children miss out?

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  • paddy's_mum
    paddy's_mum Posts: 3,977 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    It is nothing like as simple as that! That is why the OP needs to talk to a specialist solicitor.

    I know that :D

    I was simply responding to the direct question put by the OP "does my house go to my new husband"?

    The short answer in terms of will-making is no but matters might very well be vastly different should the divorce courts ever become involved, which is why I suggested that she seek legal advice on that aspect of the proposed marriage.
  • Yorkshireman99
    Yorkshireman99 Posts: 5,470 Forumite
    Noted. A competent solicitor would discuss that, and other aspects with their client. Another good reason not to use a will writer.
  • pollypenny
    pollypenny Posts: 29,441 Forumite
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    I second the idea of a new will 'written in anticipation of marriage'. That will protect your children.
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  • margaretclare
    margaretclare Posts: 10,789 Forumite
    Marriage invalidates any existing will. So you must make a new one.
    [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Æ[/FONT]r ic wisdom funde, [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]æ[/FONT]r wear[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]ð[/FONT] ic eald.
    Before I found wisdom, I became old.
  • Yorkshireman99
    Yorkshireman99 Posts: 5,470 Forumite
    Marriage invalidates any existing will. So you must make a new one.
    I am afraid you are wrong. A will containing a specific clause stating that it is made in contemplation of marriage to a specific person remains valid if that marriage takes place prior to the testator's death. The OP however, does need to make a new one with that clause if it is made before the marriage takes place.
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