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Hi everyone

I'm relatively new to this, haven't posted on here for several years - just wondering as currently stressing out with regards to income in our house: 1x retired and on state pension, and me working part-time (looking for more hours) and a teenager, we get just over £1700 into our house a month, No mortgage or rent so we pay all utilities - roughly around £650+ and constantly check them to keep payments down, just sometimes we panic and think OMG how on earth are we going to manage, Is it just me or am I just being dramatic about this. Keep a keen eye on deals and trying to get Teen to realise the cost of things and are going to open a bank account for her and pay £40 a month in for her pocket money so she can manage it herself, we buy all her toiletries for her though in shop. Shopping is the other thing we spend far far too much on £500+ a month for 2 adults and a teen, which I personally think is far to much. We don't really socialise just odd bottle of wine at home. Any suggestions or comments most welcome, Please be kind though. Thank you
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  • Darksparkle
    Darksparkle Posts: 5,465 Forumite
    I would suggest you post your soa for help and advice.

    http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php
  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    familyms wrote: »
    Hi everyone

    I'm relatively new to this, haven't posted on here for several years - just wondering as currently stressing out with regards to income in our house: 1x retired and on state pension, and me working part-time (looking for more hours) and a teenager, we get just over £1700 into our house a month, No mortgage or rent so we pay all utilities - roughly around £650+ and constantly check them to keep payments down, just sometimes we panic and think OMG how on earth are we going to manage, Is it just me or am I just being dramatic about this. Keep a keen eye on deals and trying to get Teen to realise the cost of things and are going to open a bank account for her and pay £40 a month in for her pocket money so she can manage it herself, we buy all her toiletries for her though in shop. Shopping is the other thing we spend far far too much on £500+ a month for 2 adults and a teen, which I personally think is far to much. We don't really socialise just odd bottle of wine at home. Any suggestions or comments most welcome, Please be kind though. Thank you

    £650pm for utilities for 3 people - really?:eek:
  • michelle2008
    michelle2008 Posts: 601 Forumite
    Can you break down yor utilities please? It seems high but I'm not sure what is included.
  • familyms
    familyms Posts: 21 Forumite
    I would suggest you post your soa for help and advice.

    http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php

    Thank you for your reply - We don't have any debt, is Stoozing site just for information and advice/support?
  • diamonds
    diamonds Posts: 6,048 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    edited 4 April 2016 at 9:24PM
    Dramatic about wasting money ? NEVER can be ;)

    Add her toiletries to her pocket money and teach her completely as much as possible budgeting skills add inflation at the rate each year, also tell her contribution when working will be XX with inflation rises.

    £650? are you all electricity ?

    £1700 for 3 adults... you need to start budgeting together and teach each other.

    Remember at 16/18 uni will fall on you too. If thats teenagers plan.

    How are your savings? borrowings ? all 3/2 of you ?
    SO... now England its the Scots turn to say dont leave the UK, stay in Europe with us in the UK, dont let the tories fool you like they did us with empty lies... You will be leaving the UK aswell as Europe ;)
  • familyms
    familyms Posts: 21 Forumite
    Can you break down yor utilities please? It seems high but I'm not sure what is included.

    Hi Michelle
    Thank you
    Gas/Electric £110
    Council Tax £108
    Life Insurance £30
    Broadband/Freeview £40
    Mobiles: £83 (between 3)
    Netflix £7
    Water £30
    TV Licence £13
    Next £30
    Car Fuel £100
    Gym £15
    Daughters savings/pkt money £80 = £646

    Next is were we get clothing from and have a balance of £50 at moment. I think the main thing is to try and get food shopping sorted. How to do it though as we always seem to be at shops and that is a nightmare. Teen always wants things clothes/makeup/concert tickets etc, which I'm starting to feel like I'm letting her down as we can't afford everything. Thank you
  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    familyms wrote: »
    Hi Michelle
    Thank you
    Gas/Electric £110
    Council Tax £108
    Life Insurance £30
    Broadband/Freeview £40
    Mobiles: £83 (between 3)
    Netflix £7
    Water £30
    TV Licence £13
    Next £30
    Car Fuel £100
    Gym £15
    Daughters savings/pkt money £80 = £646

    Next is were we get clothing from and have a balance of £50 at moment. I think the main thing is to try and get food shopping sorted. How to do it though as we always seem to be at shops and that is a nightmare. Teen always wants things clothes/makeup/concert tickets etc, which I'm starting to feel like I'm letting her down as we can't afford everything. Thank you

    Most of those aren't utilities - you've even got debt repayments in there!
  • diamonds
    diamonds Posts: 6,048 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    familyms wrote: »
    Hi Michelle
    Thank you
    Gas/Electric £110
    Council Tax £108
    Life Insurance £30
    Broadband/Freeview £40
    Mobiles: £83 (between 3)
    Netflix £7
    Water £30
    TV Licence £13
    Next £30
    Car Fuel £100
    Gym £15
    Daughters savings/pkt money £80 = £646

    Next is were we get clothing from and have a balance of £50 at moment. I think the main thing is to try and get food shopping sorted. How to do it though as we always seem to be at shops and that is a nightmare. Teen always wants things clothes/makeup/concert tickets etc, which I'm starting to feel like I'm letting her down as we can't afford everything. Thank you

    Mobiles? networks can get a signal at home? Thats v expensive for three. Broadband too!


    £20 a week pocket money? I used to get a bus pass (for school) my child benefit every month for ALL clothes and toiletries, I had to work for extra (£5 a week paper round) if I wanted anything - old man had the money - just refused and forced me to learn how to budget with my own cashcard account. Best lessons I learnt including school, it taught me to run my own flat at 16 and own business at 22.
    SO... now England its the Scots turn to say dont leave the UK, stay in Europe with us in the UK, dont let the tories fool you like they did us with empty lies... You will be leaving the UK aswell as Europe ;)
  • diamonds
    diamonds Posts: 6,048 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Most of those aren't utilities - you've even got debt repayments in there!

    It is expenses. The food budget is defo more then, either high quality or high level of prepared packed foods maybe ?
    SO... now England its the Scots turn to say dont leave the UK, stay in Europe with us in the UK, dont let the tories fool you like they did us with empty lies... You will be leaving the UK aswell as Europe ;)
  • familyms wrote: »
    Hi Michelle
    Thank you
    Gas/Electric £110
    Council Tax £108
    Life Insurance £30
    Broadband/Freeview £40
    Mobiles: £83 (between 3)
    Netflix £7
    Water £30
    TV Licence £13
    Next £30
    Car Fuel £100
    Gym £15
    Daughters savings/pkt money £80 = £646

    Next is were we get clothing from and have a balance of £50 at moment. I think the main thing is to try and get food shopping sorted. How to do it though as we always seem to be at shops and that is a nightmare. Teen always wants things clothes/makeup/concert tickets etc, which I'm starting to feel like I'm letting her down as we can't afford everything. Thank you


    Utilities are gas, electricity, water and telecoms by the way. Looks like you should have a half decent disposable income and looks like you are affording some luxuries with the gym, Netflix etc.

    I'm guessing you're spending a lot on food or can at least cut down.
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