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Council House Bedroom Rules / Exchange

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  • Jamiesmum
    Jamiesmum Posts: 368 Forumite
    Girlfriend would be happy to pay for the extra bedroom, so long as the council permitted the exchange to go ahead.

    Presumably rules are the same for housing associations?

    Yes council houses and housing associations. Obviously not private renters, but you could exchange to a different town if you wanted. It just takes a bit longer to sort the forms out. It's quicker if both people who exchange are with the same HA. It takes a few months to move, and potentially even longer to find a swap, though.
    Your mum could move in with her for short term whilst they found someone to swap.

    I must add - they both need to be certain it's what they both want, living with people who aren't isn't easy. Especially when they are used to there own ways. If she's lonely perhaps she can visit for a week or two.
  • Dan-Dan
    Dan-Dan Posts: 5,279 Forumite
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    anyone fancy some popcorn?
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  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    You mean my mother and girlfriend both move into a private rental?

    My girlfriend doesn't want to give up the security of a council tenancy.
    It wouldn't make sense for me to try and move out of my single accommodation to live with them.

    Yes, your mother and girlfriend. Surely she'll be giving up the tenancy when you marry?
  • Jamiesmum
    Jamiesmum Posts: 368 Forumite
    teddysmum wrote: »
    My son and partner are living, with three children (two boys, aged 9 and 6 and a girl aged 2) in a small two bedroomed council property, but have been told they will not even be considered for three bedrooms , within a year. (Yet there are supposed to be people wishing to downsize).

    I would guess that is because of gender and age. Boys can share, the girl is still young enough to be in with mum and dad (in the councils eyes). Could they exchange?
  • DavidSmith333
    DavidSmith333 Posts: 13 Forumite
    edited 18 June 2016 at 7:28PM
    Jamiesmum wrote: »
    Yes council houses and housing associations. Obviously not private renters, but you could exchange to a different town i
  • tomtontom wrote: »
    Yes, your mother and girlfriend. Surely she'll be giving up the tenancy when you marry?

    Yes, she'd need to give up her tenancy if she moved into a quarter.
    But until then she'd prefer the security of a council tenancy and I agree that it's wise.
  • Poppie68
    Poppie68 Posts: 4,881 Forumite
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    Your girlfriend would need to speak to the housing office, they may not allow her permission to move your mother in as it may be seen as overcrowding, then she may also struggle being accepted for a 3 bedroom exchange anyway. If she was given permission to apply for an exchange she could also be waiting along time and even longer for a 3 bedroom if permission for your mother to move in is given.
  • DavidSmith333
    DavidSmith333 Posts: 13 Forumite
    edited 18 June 2016 at 7:28PM
    Dan-Dan wrote: »
    anyone fancy some popcorn?

    Not sure what this means.

    But we are not trying to break any rules.
  • silvercar
    silvercar Posts: 49,976 Ambassador
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    This has disaster written all over it. What happens if you and the girlfriend split up? Where does that leave your mother?

    You don't say if your girlfriend works and/or gets any housing benefit. There would be a non-dependent deduction if your mother moved in.
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  • Poppie68 wrote: »
    Your girlfriend would need to speak to the housing office, they may not allow her permission to move your mother in as it may be seen as overcrowding, then she may also struggle being accepted for a 3 bedroom exchange anyway. If she was given permission to apply for an exchange she could also be waiting along time and even longer for a 3 bedroom if permission for your mother to move in is given.

    This is exactly what we're thinking.
    This must become a common scenario though, as people get older..?
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