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croixdawg1 · 2016-02-22 09:51:55

Hi nice people, only my 2nd post so please be cool&#55357;&#56842;. Me and my wife are in a very bad patch, she's saying she needs time to think if she still loves me and to me her mind is already made up. I still love her but I'm in no mans land at the moment. When I met her I was bankrupt due to a past split and losing a…

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justme111 Posts: 3,531 Forumite

22 February 2016 at 8:01PM

If there are no other major assets and liabilities I would think out of about £75000 equity you have hers about £ 60000 yours £15000 with solicitor and sale expenses divided in the same proportions. Less money loss if she buys you out.

The word "dilemma" comes from Greek where "di" means two and "lemma" means premise. Refers usually to difficult choice between two undesirable options.
Often people seem to use this word mistakenly where "quandary" would fit better.
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