PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Buying from a family member

Options
13»

Comments

  • I think we will put our house up for sale a lot sooner than planned and complete work once both agreements have been met. I'm guessing a mortgage and sale could take up to 4-6 month anyway
  • DaftyDuck
    DaftyDuck Posts: 4,609 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Well, there is one option open, given this may be a "friendly" transaction, and that'd be doing the work between exchange and completion - which could be a couple of months apart.

    It does seem like you need to simplify the process, and clear up your plans . You will need to sell your house to buy theirs (or you'll have two mortgages, stamp duty implications, two sets of Council Tax and utility bills...). You'll need to agree a price. If this is below market value, there may well be gift implications for the mortgage lender to consider.

    I'd spend an hour thinking on your plans, and repost, possibly in bullet-point fashion!
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    AdrianC wrote: »
    It's very kind of you to spend six months renovating your relative's house, on the promise of a sale.

    If this is really what is intended, sign a legal agreement with the relative saying that you will be reimbursed for all the money spent on the house if the sale doesn't go through. Obviously, both parties would have to agree on the work and costings.

    Also, plan for 'what ifs' to happen during the renovation period - the relative dying, you losing income, etc.
  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Mojisola wrote: »
    If this is really what is intended, sign a legal agreement with the relative saying that you will be reimbursed for all the money spent on the house if the sale doesn't go through. Obviously, both parties would have to agree on the work and costings.
    There are also potential repercussions if the quality of the work is deemed unacceptable. A quagmire in the making...

    And what happens if, after the six months, the OP isn't in a position to buy? Perhaps the mortgage market's tanked again. Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps.
  • G_M
    G_M Posts: 51,977 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Iain, I'm afraid there is only one thing you've said so far that I've fully undertood and agreed with:
    I guess I'm not coming across too clear on here.

    If you want further help, I suggest you start again, and explain in simple terms (perhaps bullet points?):

    * exactly what your current situation is (mortgage, savings etc)
    * what the current market value of the other property is
    * what you wish to do to it, and at what cost
    * what your relative wants
    * what sequence of events you plan, in order to achieve your objective
  • AnotherJoe
    AnotherJoe Posts: 19,622 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Fifth Anniversary Name Dropper Photogenic
    IainBeale wrote: »
    I think we will put our house up for sale a lot sooner than planned and complete work once both agreements have been met. I'm guessing a mortgage and sale could take up to 4-6 month anyway

    If you mean by that, you'll start work between exchange and completion, and that the seller is happy for you to do that, you'll have to get some legal agreements run up. Generally you'd expect 2-4 weeks between the two, you are looking at 6 months. Your buyers may not be happy with this, to put it mildly. If you mean, start work once someone puts an offer in on your house but before you exchange on it, this is what you are getting

    miscellaneous-worms-can-tin-opening_a_can_of_worms-opening-jfa2492_low.jpg


    So not sure I see that as a starter either.

    Can you not just do a normal sale/buy, mostly live in the granny annex whilst the house is being done up (or the messy stuff at least) them move back into house and do granny annex?
  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    You'd not normally get a firm mortgage offer to stand for six months, either, and you'd be VERY ill advised to exchange without knowing 110% that the funds will be available to complete.
  • mlz1413
    mlz1413 Posts: 3,025 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I'm with Dafy Duck just build in a period of time between exchange and completion that you are allowed in to change the kitchen and paint the walls, approx 2-4 weeks. Although it will depend on your buyer accepting this delay!

    Doing up a house you don't own is a risk, if you want to do this you could do it now before you market your house, get mortgage advise etc

    The normal thing that happens when someone does up someone else's house is that they are paid for the work carried out. You could look at this option and then if you don't buy the house you are not out of pocket.
  • Thanks again this seems like a reasonable idea

    "Can you not just do a normal sale/buy, mostly live in the granny annex whilst the house is being done up (or the messy stuff at least) them move back into house and do granny annex?"

    I think we will do this but put the kitchen and patio doors in the month or so between exchange . I suppose everything else can be lived with temporary. At least we have free access to the property for measuring and getting quotes in the mean time.

    I'm still not sure about this gifted equity. Does anyone have any experience of this? How does it work as a negative? Will it stop me getting a mortgage?
  • AnotherJoe
    AnotherJoe Posts: 19,622 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Fifth Anniversary Name Dropper Photogenic
    I think it's a red herring myself. Sounds like it needs a lot of work so fair enough theres a reduction in recognition of that.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177K Life & Family
  • 257.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.