Can I Fix This?

southernscouser

The great thing about this debt malarky is that there is no right or wrong.

Everyone is different. It's only right, if it's right for you.

All of us could make more scarifices to pay our debt off. But you have to decide from what you want out of life and this journey.

Remember that you're not a prisoner to your debt. You can't punish yourself forever. You are rectifying your mistakes. But it doesn't mean you can't live life at the same time.

I hope this has totally confused you. I haven't even been drinking.

ciarasdreams

southernscouser wrote: »

The great thing about this debt malarky is that there is no right or wrong.

Everyone is different. It's only right, if it's right for you.

All of us could make more scarifices to pay our debt off. But you have to decide from what you want out of life and this journey.

Remember that you're not a prisoner to your debt. You can't punish yourself forever. You are rectifying your mistakes. But it doesn't mean you can't live life at the same time.

I hope this has totally confused you. I haven't even been drinking.

You did not come in for your magners. I think I understand some of what you are saying to me but I am not sure and I am not going to totally embarass myself by getting it totally wrong so I will just be confused.

southernscouser

ciarasdreams wrote: »

You did not come in for your magners. I think I understand some of what you are saying to me but I am not sure and I am not going to totally embarass myself by getting it totally wrong so I will just be confused.

What I'm saying is you haven't done anything wrong getting into debt. You don't have to punish yourself by sacrificing everything.

PasturesNew

ciarasdreams wrote: »

I am not ignoring your advice because I know that you are right but it is something that I would now find very difficult to do.

It's OK. I just threw it in there because most people don't really think of studios. I, on the other hand, set out to get one. I was just too naturally tight to fork out for a 1-bed.

Anyway, maybe somebody else will stumble across the maths and do it.

They are an acquired taste. Certainly nowhere for the new chubbier variety of Brit that the papers tell us are taking over! But I am lucky. Bordering on midget

I take up hardly any space at all.

PasturesNew

southernscouser wrote: »

Get your tips out for the lads!

If she rattles her box at you ... will you slip something in it?

ciarasdreams

southernscouser wrote: »

What I'm saying is you haven't done anything wrong getting into debt. You don't have to punish yourself by sacrificing everything.

ut I did do something really wrong and totally unforgiveable and that is what got me into debt and I suppose that in a way I am using repaying it as a way to make myself pay for other things.

southernscouser

PasturesNew wrote: »

If she rattles her box at you ... will you slip something in it?

:rotfl: :rotfl:

Nothing that she'd notice! :doh:

southernscouser

ciarasdreams wrote: »

ut I did do something really wrong and totally unforgiveable and that is what got me into debt and I suppose that in a way I am using repaying it as a way to make myself pay for other things.

What did you do wrong?

ciarasdreams

PasturesNew wrote: »

It's OK. I just threw it in there because most people don't really think of studios. I, on the other hand, set out to get one. I was just too naturally tight to fork out for a 1-bed.

Anyway, maybe somebody else will stumble across the maths and do it.

They are an acquired taste. Certainly nowhere for the new chubbier variety of Brit that the papers tell us are taking over! But I am lucky. Bordering on midget

I take up hardly any space at all.

Thanfully I do not think that I fall into the category of chubby even although I am I size 12 I am also 5'10" so that at least in my opinion I am not obese yet.

southernscouser

ciarasdreams wrote: »

Thanfully I do not think that I fall into the category of chubby even although I am I size 12 I am also 5'10" so that at least in my opinion I am not obese yet.

Send me a picture and I'll let you know.