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spud30

I would imagine there would be a few areas of compatability you would want to check whilst sober

ciarasdreams

spud30 wrote: »

I would imagine there would be a few areas of compatability you would want to check whilst sober

The biggest one this time round being their marital status and I will want a full public record check as well before I am willing to accept anybodys word for it. :mad:

spud30

ciarasdreams wrote: »

The biggest one this time round being their marital status and I will want a full public record check as well before I am willing to accept anybodys word for it. :mad:

Yes, I've fallen for that old chestnut in the past too :mad:

I'm sure your BiL will let you know if there are any skeletons in the closets

ciarasdreams

spud30 wrote: »

Yes, I've fallen for that old chestnut in the past too :mad:

I'm sure your BiL will let you know if there are any skeletons in the closets

Most people are just not stupid enough to fall for that and all the lies for four years though. I am actually a bit worried about introducing any new people to him and my sister because they both see through people from miles away but he never react anywhere nearly as calmy as she does.

spud30

They sound exactly like the sort of people you should be introducing potential OH's to

How's your sis doing? Does she have a bump yet?

ciarasdreams

spud30 wrote: »

They sound exactly like the sort of people you should be introducing potential OH's to

How's your sis doing? Does she have a bump yet?

No there is nothing showing yet she still has an almost concave stomache and tiny waistline and she is still wearing stiletto heels no problem at all and is still running about like crazy and like she is allergic to rest or sleep. :rolleyes: She is going back to work tomorrow and she is really happy about this but my brother in law is almost apopleptic about it and is still insisting that she should just be staying at home and living off of his wage.

spud30

He's understandably worried - things have happened to her at work in the past havent they?

I've never had a figure like that, before during or after pregnancy. I cant wear stilettos for long either :rotfl:

ciarasdreams

spud30 wrote: »

He's understandably worried - things have happened to her at work in the past havent they?

I've never had a figure like that, before during or after pregnancy. I cant wear stilettos for long either :rotfl:

They are an almost daily occurence in her job just because of the type of people that she works with but she is really not a pushover and is very good at the whole self defence thing because I have seen her doing it and I was scared but he has always been the same even before the pregnancy. :rolleyes: She will just never conform though and go along with it because being a happy housewife is just not in her nature at all.:rotfl: She has always been the same and has always looked totally amazing all of the time which is probably why life has always been very low cost for her and probably always will be. :rolleyes:

spud30

Maybe a bit of reverse psychology is needed. Tell BiL to insist your sister goes out to earn a crust, she might rebel and want to stay at home

ciarasdreams

spud30 wrote: »

Maybe a bit of reverse psychology is needed. Tell BiL to insist your sister goes out to earn a crust, she might rebel and want to stay at home

She is a strange one though my sister and she loves her job and she would probably do it for free if the government stopped paying her to do it and take a second job to cover living expenses. Unfortunately though she knows him far too well for him ever to be able to convince her that he meant something like that.