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Neighbour issues part 1

Have a fence which is broken and needs replacing, was present when I bought the place.

If I ask my neighbour for 50% of costs and getting x3 quotes, what could I do if neighbour refuses and says it's my problem.

Two fence supporting posts are crooked and part of the fence has 10x20 cm hole in it where it cracked. It would be in our interest to fix but just planning ahead in caseof disagreement.

I could be pedantic and let the fence fall apart since I don't use the garden at all.
"It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"

G_M/ Bowlhead99 RIP
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  • Who owns the fence?
  • pimento
    pimento Posts: 6,243 Forumite
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    Love the way the OP has titled this thread 'part 1' as if they are expecting the neighbour problems to be at least plural.

    I'm quite glad they haven't just moved in next door to me.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • marksoton
    marksoton Posts: 17,516 Forumite
    csgohan4 wrote: »

    I could be pedantic and let the fence fall apart since I don't use the garden at all.

    I'd say you're already there by measuring the hole at 100x200mm!

    You say neighbour issues part 1, is this a trilogy?!

    As stated responsibility depends on who owns the fence. But regardless an aggressive nature towards neighbours rarely pays dividends in the long run.
  • thesaint
    thesaint Posts: 4,324 Forumite
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    I doubt there is any obligation to have a fence, so if the neighbour doesn't want to replace it, you can't do a thing. So who owns it is irrelevant.
    Well life is harsh, hug me don't reject me.
  • aggypanthus
    aggypanthus Posts: 1,579 Forumite
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    Start with a conversation with next door.

    We shared fron fence cost with good neighbours, however, when WE wanted to replace 2 of the 3 back fences, WE paid it outselves without bothering anyone. then the 3rd fence was replaced by neighbour at his cost, when HE wanted a new fence.
  • csgohan4
    csgohan4 Posts: 10,600 Forumite
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    pimento wrote: »
    Love the way the OP has titled this thread 'part 1' as if they are expecting the neighbour problems to be at least plural.

    I'm quite glad they haven't just moved in next door to me.





    Seeing as there have already been a few threads on neighbours thought I would start as part 1. I don't anticipate any further neighbour issues.
    "It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"

    G_M/ Bowlhead99 RIP
  • Davesnave
    Davesnave Posts: 34,741 Forumite
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    csgohan4 wrote: »
    If I ask my neighbour for 50% of costs and getting x3 quotes, what could I do if neighbour refuses and says it's my problem.
    The answer to this question is 'nothing.'

    But it could be worse! What if your neighbour says, "Good idea, but let's share the work and do it together DIY."

    It looks as if you are clearly not up for any DIY here, but that's what I'd do, just not at this time of year.

    And that's the problem with neighbours sharing anything. They have their own ideas and expectations, so tactful negotiation and listening to other POVs is crucial.
  • jackomdj
    jackomdj Posts: 3,073 Forumite
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    edited 16 November 2015 at 6:51PM
    If you own the fence you have the choice (assuming there is nothing in your deeds stating otherwise):
    1 do nothing
    2 replace fence yourself
    3 negotiate with neighbour to share the costs
    4 remove the fence (so long as you don't have any animals which need keeping in)
    If your neighbour owns the fence they have all the above choices.
    If your neighbour owns the fence you could:
    1 ask if you could replace it
    2 put your own fence up on your property close to the boundary.

    Hopefully that covers met options!
  • G_M
    G_M Posts: 51,977 Forumite
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    As well as ownership of the fence, OP should also check for any covenants relating to the fence which are assigned to either his, or his neighbour's, property.
  • TBeckett100
    TBeckett100 Posts: 4,732 Forumite
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    Do what I did and change your wifi name to
    Fixtheblo odyfence

    The following weekend he was out there
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