Letting a tradesman know they haven't got the job?

Aside from the obvious - "contact them & tell them they haven't got the job".

I had a chap out to price a job up last week. There's various ways of tackling the problem & he wanted to go the top end which we couldn't afford. Nowhere even close.
A few emails back & forth to explain this & he offered other ways (we supply materials ourselves which shaved off a huge chunk but still more than we could afford. I also wanted to go a different approach which he didn't respond to).
Eventually he responds to the approach we want to go, says best he can offer is charging for his time & we supply all materials ourselves for this other route.

Problem is, with some of it i actually don't know where to start.


Have another guy out this week to look at the job who has said everything we're looking at. Providing his quote is within budget then we will be going with this chap as he appears to actually want to do the job the way we want it doing.


Question is - how would you put it to the first guy after all the back & forth trying to come to a way we could afford it?

Not saying anything is bad manners.
I would've thought - sorry but someone else is more interested in doing it the way we want it doing & is cheaper & will supply everything themselves is a bit harsh.

Never had to do this before.

Comments

  • 27col
    27col Posts: 6,554 Forumite
    People do tend to seriously over estimate if they do not really want the job.
    I can afford anything that I want.
    Just so long as I don't want much.
  • macman
    macman Posts: 53,129 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Just say you've placed the job elsewhere, no need to give reasons.
    No free lunch, and no free laptop ;)
  • Plumber90
    Plumber90 Posts: 280 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    edited 14 August 2015 at 1:22PM
    You cant get every job you price for, most people wouldnt even bother letting people know they havent got the job.
  • Maybe I just try to be too nice then. Also I feel bad kind of easily which doesn't help.

    After some discussion they were pricing approx £8-£8.5k on materials.

    When I priced it up myself it was in the region of £3-£5k. I was told £3k but added on an extra £2k for just in case purposes there.

    Either way, way less than this guys pricing. I understand he will charge extra on top of the materials, but that much? He said it was due to tax that he had to.
  • srm1
    srm1 Posts: 151 Forumite
    They supply an estimate for works, normally free of charge.
    If the estimate is acceptable for the required works - they get the work.
    If the estimate is unacceptable they do not.
    Any trades person would know and accept this.
    No need to contact them again.
  • Ruski
    Ruski Posts: 1,628 Forumite
    As a trademan I find it really good for the customer to let me know - I always say "Let me know, one way or the other so that I can pencil you into the diary" - 9 times out of ten I get the job anyway, but on two or three occasions people have let me know that I haven't got the job, which for me is great as I know that I don't mentally have to 'reserve' a space in the diary.

    That said - I once had a customer come back after three months to say 'go ahead please'... they didn't like the date 4 month ahead that I gave them but that's the way it is with good tradesmen!

    HTH

    Russ
    Perfection takes time: don't expect miracles in a day :D
  • paddyrg
    paddyrg Posts: 13,543 Forumite
    'Thanks for your quotes for the work, we won't be proceeding, just wanted to let you know so you can free up your diary again. All the best,'
  • ljonski
    ljonski Posts: 3,337 Forumite
    "So long sucker"
    "if the state cannot find within itself a place for those who peacefully refuse to worship at its temples, then it’s the state that’s become extreme".Revd Dr Giles Fraser on Radio 4 2017
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