Is it wrong to accept a drink given in error? 25 June 2015 at 5:44PM in Food Shopping & Groceries 14 replies 3.6K views

Former_MSE_Nick

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

I went to a certain fast food restaurant recently with my kids, and when I collected my order I noticed I'd been given one too many drinks. My little boy asked me why I hadn't returned it as we'd been given it by mistake - is it wrong to accept an item you didn't order?

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Ferryboat_Woman

I think you should have returned it.Your little boy noticed the mistake and for that reason alone i think you should have returned it. (chances are they would have let you keep it anyway).By keeping it you were giving him mixed messages.ie, it's ok to be dishonest if there is a fair chance you can get away with it.That's not a good thing to teach children.

moonshine

why is this posted in the Groceries board? It has nothing to do with food shopping or buying groceries!

Should be on the Going Out board IMO - or create a "Moral Dilemma" board to accommodate the strange questions MSE staff keep asking like this one and this.

LABMAN

MSE_Nick wrote: »

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

I went to a certain fast food restaurant recently with my kids, and when I collected my order I noticed I'd been given one too many drinks. My little boy asked me why I hadn't returned it as we'd been given it by mistake - is it wrong to accept an item you didn't order?

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What did the MoneySaver reply to their little boy?


As for the question 'is it wrong to accept an item you didn't order?' There's is supposed to be no such thing as a stupid question on MSE....but that really stretches that idea too far.


BTW is this now what is passing for journalism in MSE Towers?

jon81uk

MSE_Nick wrote: »

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

I went to a certain fast food restaurant recently with my kids, and when I collected my order I noticed I'd been given one too many drinks. My little boy asked me why I hadn't returned it as we'd been given it by mistake - is it wrong to accept an item you didn't order?

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What did you tell your boy? I don't think it is particularly wrong to accept one drink (cost price is pennies and retail is 99p) but you need to be able to explain it to your son.

Also as other said, this isn't related to Groceries, should be on the going out board.

zygurat789

MSE_Nick wrote: »

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

I went to a certain fast food restaurant recently with my kids, and when I collected my order I noticed I'd been given one too many drinks. My little boy asked me why I hadn't returned it as we'd been given it by mistake - is it wrong to accept an item you didn't order?

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ilovemygarden

moonshine wrote: »

why is this posted in the Groceries board? It has nothing to do with food shopping or buying groceries!

Should be on the Going Out board IMO - or create a "Moral Dilemma" board to accommodate the strange questions MSE staff keep asking like this one and this.

or in the Arms on the Discussion board.

zappomatic

Good to demonstrate honesty to children, but had it been an all adult group I'd have kept it as they'd only have poured it away if it had been returned.

stephen77

Ferryboat_Woman wrote: »

By keeping it you were giving him mixed messages.ie, it's ok to be dishonest if there is a fair chance you can get away with it.That's not a good thing to teach children.

Its not dishonest and your not getting away with anything as YOU did nothing wrong.
They would only pour it away if you returned it.
You may even get the server in trouble by there boss for being wasteful.

My answer may be different if buying different items.
Eg you buy one watch and they put two in the bag.

Ferryboat_Woman

By accepting Something in a shop or cafe which you haven't paid for is dishonest......when you KNOW you haven't paid for it. If they pour it away if you return it is not relevant to somebody's honestly.

somethingcorporate

stephen77 wrote: »

Its not dishonest and your not getting away with anything as YOU did nothing wrong.
They would only pour it away if you returned it.
You may even get the server in trouble by there boss for being wasteful.

My answer may be different if buying different items.
Eg you buy one watch and they put two in the bag.

Who did something wrong is missing the point, people make mistakes and humans are allowed to err. They hadn't paid for it so they should do the right thing and tell the truth.

Is this really a dilemma? What about if it's something more expensive? Where is the line? It's either wrong to keep something you haven't ordered and paid for or it's right the value or consequences of the product when given back should not really come into it.