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disagreement with union rep

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  • Transformers
    Transformers Posts: 411 Forumite
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    tir21 wrote: »
    Well i'm sure the hr department dont want to spend all day just doing crosswords

    Nice attitude - I'm sure they'll be falling over themselves to help you!


    You should try showing colleagues a bit of respect and then you might receive the same from them.
  • tir21
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    Nice attitude - I'm sure they'll be falling over themselves to help you!


    You should try showing colleagues a bit of respect and then you might receive the same from them.

    I would have received warnings if i didnt show colleagues any respect
  • NewShadow
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    edited 15 May 2015 at 3:18PM
    tir21 wrote: »
    I would have received warnings if i didnt show colleagues any respect

    You would have received warnings if you said or did anything insulting and/or demeaning to or in front of a colleague that was witnessed and/or documented by others.

    If you simply act in a way that shows a lack of respect - not showing gratitude, always thinking you're right and they're wrong (lack of empathy), or wasting their time - they'll be hostile, unhelpful, and not want to work with you. Oh, hold on...

    You might find this quick guide to respect useful OP: http://www.wikihow.com/Show-Respect
    That sounds like a classic case of premature extrapolation.

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  • tir21
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    NewShadow wrote: »
    You would have received warnings if you said or did anything insulting and/or demeaning to or in front of a colleague that was witnessed and/or documented by others.

    If you simply act in a way that shoes a lack of respect - not showing gratitude, always thinking you're right and they're wrong (lack of empathy), or wasting their time - they'll be hostile, unhelpful, and not want to work with you. Oh, hold on...

    You might find this quick guide to respect useful OP: http://www.wikihow.com/Show-Respect

    Well if someone is right it can be sometimes be difficult for them to avoid thinking they are right - but we do seem to be getting a bit off topic here and into a discussion about my characteristics and personality which might not be appropriate forum to do that
  • Faith177
    Faith177 Posts: 2,927 Forumite
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    tir21 wrote: »
    Well if someone is right it can be sometimes be difficult for them to avoid thinking they are right - but we do seem to be getting a bit off topic here and into a discussion about my characteristics and personality which might not be appropriate forum to do that

    Oh the irony :rotfl:
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  • tir21
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    Faith177 wrote: »
    Oh the irony :rotfl:

    Oh the wit :)
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