Help!!

toscaredtotell

Just go for it. We've all had our up's and Down's and this sounds like one that you'll be buzzing off for Weeks, Go for it and don't feel guilty and Plus the kids will meet other kids and have a good time too!!!!!

:T :j

chevalier

Hi there Sea
I think if you have the money it would be a good thing for both of you to go. As long as your OH knows that you both can't go buying rounds and spending lots of money. It will be a nice time.

And you have just reminded me I have to book some accommodation too for a wedding....
*wanders off to do that*
chev

Sea78

Just talked to OH again about it We are going on holiday next week and really need all the money for that. I'm going to go with the kids, stay as long as I can, then drive back. I'll have one drink at the reception in the afternoon, but then stick to soft drinks. I just can't justify the costs. If it weren't for this hol (which was meant to be a haven hol in this country, which would have cut the cost by at least three quarters I reckon, but I can't be ungrateful as B-i-l has paid for the hol but we have to find money for al the bits, petrol to the s of france, passport fees etc) I'd be there like a shot booking any room available! Need to think about priorities though and I need the money for the hol.

Feel like I'm letting people down though in a stupid way. OH not being very understanding - just says I wasn't bothered a few weeks ago. True but I was pg then.

Grrr. I HATE being in debt. I can't believe I have been so stupid to get myself into this state. ARRRGHHHHHH


Sorry, normal Sea will return later

in_debt_again_but_dealing_with_it

Oh Sea huge hug heading your way honey.
What about you leave the kids with dh and go alone, sometimes space and chillin can make all the difference!

Sea78

Yes, but it's my ds's second birthday and I don't want to be away from him lol

Sea78

Well.....


errr......


confession time! I went, had a FABULOUS time and stayed lol!!

In total, including drinks, room, wedding pressie etc I spent a total of £114. Oops. but got a great deal on the room and it was wonderful.

So glad I did it!

tifnstav

good for you!
i was gutted when i read that you weren't staying!!!

hypno06

Wey hey - good for you girl!!

You sound as though it is just what you needed. Now join a challenge and get the money back!

Sea78

Yes -def! I have about £20 worth of bids on Ebay for things finishing tonight, hopefully that'll go up a bit. also got given £15 worth of M&S vouchers so will be buying some much needed nuderwear with that lol and popping the saved money into the challenge( and therefore to cover that too). Will be scouring for more stuff to list and sell.


We have a lovely bunch of roses from a table display that the groom gave DD - she was beside herself the whole day and tailed the bride. She now wants to be a bride and has spent the day acting like one!

Snaggles

Quite right too! :T :T