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My baby is growing up too fast

Hi all,

Just wanted a place to vent, my DS moved into a 'real' bed tonight and I feel quite emotional about it all :o

Truth is, hes 2 1/2 now and its been coming for a long time, typical toddler getting more and more independant by the day :rolleyes:

Did anyone else feel sad their LO was growing up so much?? Is it bad to feel sad, surely I should feel jubilant and happy at his progress :confused: Am I that terrible a person?? :rotfl:

I don't get to talk to many other mums, just wondered if this is par for the course?

Lol reading that back, I sound like some kind of mad woman, am sure!!! Also apologies there is nothing really money saving about this, just want some reassurance I don't need to get myself committed just yet :rotfl:

Sarah xx
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  • i'm a dad & my other half is right now putting our son to bed for the first time in his new big bed.

    I feel overjoyed about it I think its brilliant. Sure they grow up fast but its wonderful.
  • amazamum
    amazamum Posts: 287 Forumite
    Hi Sarah my little one has just turned 3,it seems sad that I can hardly remember him being a baby,he seems to have grown up too fast,whereas my daughter who is 7 I can remember loads of things she did as a baby,maybe with her being my first and I seemed to spend more time with her(although I don't think I did if that makes sense).


    Just enjoy them for what they are little angels and be there to surport them,they get more enjoyable everyday.
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  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    My son bought me an alcoholic drink last month at his sixth form leavers ball.

    I'm sure it was only a few months ago he looked so tiny in his first big bed. Time really does fly.
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  • I don't really realise how much my DD has grown until i see my sisters LO wearing her old clothes i've passed on. Then i always wonder "how on earth did you ever fit in that?"! I got out her going home outfit the other day & it's sooooo tiny. Just makes me want another baby now!
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  • Beamish
    Beamish Posts: 284 Forumite
    Make the most of it JC, before you know it they are all grown up and you remember them being babies as if it was yesterday.

    What I would give to have my babies back (they are now 28 & 31) and both have special women in their lives.

    How about making a memory book now that your LO is starting an independant life, its great to look back at and even funnier when you show it to the future wives...LOL

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  • Ellie2758
    Ellie2758 Posts: 2,849 Forumite
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    I am quite sad that my 16 year old now has another woman in his life :(
    Ellie :cool:

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  • awww my little girl is only turning 8 months and i already miss the little sleepy floppy baby that was so tiny and lovely to cuddle.
  • Mics_chick
    Mics_chick Posts: 12,014 Forumite
    Hi all,

    Just wanted a place to vent, my DS moved into a 'real' bed tonight and I feel quite emotional about it all :o

    Truth is, hes 2 1/2 now and its been coming for a long time, typical toddler getting more and more independant by the day :rolleyes:

    Did anyone else feel sad their LO was growing up so much?? Is it bad to feel sad, surely I should feel jubilant and happy at his progress :confused: Am I that terrible a person?? :rotfl:

    I don't get to talk to many other mums, just wondered if this is par for the course?

    Lol reading that back, I sound like some kind of mad woman, am sure!!! Also apologies there is nothing really money saving about this, just want some reassurance I don't need to get myself committed just yet :rotfl:

    Sarah xx

    You're not nuts for this reason Sarah - I feel just the same way :D

    My daughter is 4 and starts school next January and my son is 2.5 and starts pre-school in September.
    I love seeing them asleep especially my son coz he still looks like a baby when he's a sleep - he's still wearing nappies (pull-ups) and got a chubby-ish face and legs :D whereas my daughter is more like a foal - skinny body and all legs ;)
    I feel like I'm losing my babies too and it's a really strong feeling but I also really enjoy all the things they can do.
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  • JillD_2
    JillD_2 Posts: 1,773 Forumite
    I am pretty much the same as mics_chick, my son is 4 and starts school in September. Hes been in nursery/preschool since 6 months but I am gutted that he is starting school, I am totally totally dreading dropping him off on day one. My daughter is 2 1/2 and has just done a term at preschool, I am also dreading dropping her off there on her own without her big brother.
    she is still in a cot (cotbed size) as we have another baby due is 6 weeks and no way do I want 2 of them running about like loonies at bedtime or in the morning, But she should really be in a bed and I am dreading this too, they look so tiny and lost.

    Maybe you should do what i do and keep having babies LOL
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  • cells
    cells Posts: 5,246 Forumite
    can always make another one:beer: :D:A
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