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Financially screwed by partners ex

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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,154 Forumite
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    annannanna wrote: »
    Hi RAS, he has cancelled the payment and has contacted the mortgage lender, they are giving him 30 days to get his head around it all and are going to send us some details.

    I strongly advise speaking to Shelter and to National Debtline when he gets the information.

    I suggest also doing a Subject Access Request PDQ; that means they have to send everything from the last 6 years. It costs £10 and takes upto 42 days, so he needs to motor.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
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    Hi annananna


    Have only just noticed this thread, as I would never normally look at this part of the Forum.


    I just wanted to add that we will be very happy to offer any advice you need as per RAS's suggestion to get in touch.


    Dennis
    @natdebtline
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