Enter, Laugh, Integrate, Talk, Enjoy.

lookinforabargain

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

Sounds like hes feeling insecure and alittle jealous.i think men have a hard time talking about stuff wheras women find it easy.is there anyone who you both know that could listen to each side.does oh have a good mate that you could have a quiet word with?I think its easier for men to talk to another man to avoid embarassment.try to keep the dialogue going and avoid the blame game, even if its tempting just so he knows how its hurting.just have to try some reasurance if you can and keep calm if you both can.would you be able to think about some solutions before you try to talk to him?its hard cos you will both be hurting and treading on eggshells.main thing is to try to keep talking and try to find out what you both want as a solution.good luck, hope it works out for you both.x

Wise words and food for thought there, thank you :A

TrulyMadly wrote: »

Is he showing you he is hurt or looking for attention? Is he wanting you to be worried about him or is he angry? Poor flab:A

I'm sure he will be fine but he seems to be showing a lot of mixed emotions. Hopefully tomorrow you might get the chance to talk it through xx

I honestly don't know TM, I guess it could well be all of those.
Will see what tomorrow brings, I'm working so will be out from 9am tomorrow.

Bananababe

davemorton wrote: »

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: v
Calm down!!

Eh ? It was ya tumshee ! :rotfl:

TrulyMadly

Flab....just want to say that you have lots of warm wishes and support flying at you from every direction. We all care so much about you.

Hope you get some sleep :A

hornetgirl

I'm very fond of DH, but why whenever he has a brandy does he have to do that thing where you wet your finger and run it round the edge of the glass so it makes an awful noise?

TrulyMadly

hornetgirl wrote: »

I'm very fond of DH, but why whenever he has a brandy does he have to do that thing where you wet your finger and run it round the edge of the glass so it makes an awful noise?

Is he musical? :rotfl:

ilovegreatdanes

Bananababe wrote: »

Hey mrs . Right not caught entirely im in a hotel in perth. Few glasses of wine and a chinese.

Anyways speaking from experience . Can you live without him ? If you never seen him again could you cope ?
The answer will tell you. Men are funny creatures we think we are the emotional ones. They bottle everything up.

No rash decisions ok and you always have support here.

DaveM advice was good xx Big hugs lovely lady xxx

Hi, BB...wish I was in a hotel in perth.....in scotland, in austrailia.not fussy:Di havent won the lottery tonite so I will have to stay with sal wag:rotfl:and why am I sitting , watching match of the day:eek:dont even like rugby:rotfl:
think id better go to bed.

ilovegreatdanes

hornetgirl wrote: »

I'm very fond of DH, but why whenever he has a brandy does he have to do that thing where you wet your finger and run it round the edge of the glass so it makes an awful noise?

Practising for britains got talent?:D

lookinforabargain

TrulyMadly wrote: »

Flab....just want to say that you have lots of warm wishes and support flying at you from every direction. We all care so much about you.

Hope you get some sleep :A

Thank you TM and everyone else. You've honestly no idea how much I appreciate it :A

Sleep might be a good idea actually, think I'll take myself off to bed and attempt to get some rest.

G'night all and thanks again xx

Bananababe

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

Hi, BB...wish I was in a hotel in perth.....in scotland, in austrailia.not fussy:Di havent won the lottery tonite so I will have to stay with sal wag:rotfl:and why am I sitting , watching match of the day:eek:dont even like rugby:rotfl:
think id better go to bed.

Prob cause you can't be annoyed turning it over. Its lovely actually had really chilled out day. We are light weights so in bed watching csi xx

Dippydoo

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

Hi, BB...wish I was in a hotel in perth.....in scotland, in austrailia.not fussy:Di havent won the lottery tonite so I will have to stay with sal wag:rotfl:and why am I sitting , watching match of the day:eek:dont even like rugby:rotfl:
think id better go to bed.

rugby on motd ? :rotfl: