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Sakura10

fairclaire wrote: »

good morning

The truth is that he has had the very best of care. And lots of it. Anyone with experience of this stuff will know that help can only go so far and that you have to use the help to help yourself. Whatever goes on in his head doesn't let him do that.

I can't believe how negative I'm being :(it's not like me at all.

Thanks for all the messages. I'm heading off soon to see what can get sorted out.

in the midst of all the chaos I'm comforted by DS2 practical attitude to everything his biggest concern over the last week is that we ran out of kitkats...........that sulky face pained by having to force himself to eat a penguin instead has been the biggest laugh I've had in ages!

Good morning all

Really sorry to hear what has been happening with you FC.

The key points I would make are:

You are not back at the bottom of the mountain, you have slipped back to the previous base camp and can work again from there.

Your DH doesn't want to leave you or hurt you and the family, but will genuinely believe you are better off without him.

Get him seen by someone that deals in NLP rather than CBT (neuro linguistic programming). Much better short term and long term effects in my experience

We are here for you

mrs_lds

Trying to search where to get the 39pence passport photos does anyone know tia xx

Bananababe

Walk a mile in a woman's shoes ....

Much love FC xxxxx

Sakura10

nerfdad wrote: »

The joys of being a parent:eek::eek:
Ds1 had a great big poo and blocked the toilet so
1st use the toilet brush:o no joy
2nd metal coat hanger:o no joy
3rd my hand down the bog to break the poo and toilet paper up with my finger :eek::eek::eek: but it's sorted now and for such a small kid his poo is huge:rotfl::rotfl: the joys of being a parent:j:j

I would be giving Ds1 a bit less fibre in his diet

Naebbirac

Fairclaire lots of love and support for you here. I can't add anything more than the wise ones on here have posted. I really feel for you and hope things improve. Stay strong if you can and don't feel any guilt. Your DH has had you supporting him, and often dragging him up that mountain. I've followed your story, and I think you've coped admirably, under very difficult circumstances. Sending you the biggest hug hun.
N xx

boo_2112

pacifica9 wrote: »

Is it sad that I heard that in Harry Enfield "considerably richer than yeow" Brummy accent? :rotfl:

OMG!!! You read my mind, I even said it to myself a few times :rotfl:

Tinyshoes

DD1 has just popped into her SUPERDRUG and found some different hairdyes for around 50p mark. Not sure exact prices know one was 55p.


http://www.mysupermarket.co.uk/boots-price-comparison/Hair_Colourant/Clairol_Nice_n_Easy_Permanent_Hair_Colour_110_Natural_Light_Auburn.html?TrackingCode=232.V0LZvhuOakeOjI-aUUqPEw

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Clairol-Nicen-Easy-Perfect-Permanent/dp/B001RYNKV4

http://www.boots.com/en/Schwarzkopf-LIVE-Color-XXL-HD-48-Cherry-Mahogany-Permanent-Brown-Hair-Dye_1401494/


The above are the best links I can find for pics as lots when I click on google are saying OOS on the pages when I get to them and no pics.

She also found for 33p a L'Oreal glow wash off tan. Possibly this one but not sure.

http://www.superdrug.com/Save-third-on-selected-LOreal/L%27Oreal-Sublime-Bronze-One-Day-Glow-150ml/p/625850?gclid=CPeG9afu2cMCFdMatAod0l0A3g&gclsrc=aw.ds#.VNtGzSlFDIU

Sorry bit vague on that last one she had Teeny with her but will find out more later.

Loolah

I don't often post but I DO read everything so know the background

Just want to tell FC how amazing I think she is and I know that she will get through this

Love and strength to you x

Amanda4242

fairclaire wrote: »

I've not been posting lately because life has been pretty terrible

Last Friday my OH decided that life would be ended better by drinking a bottle of weedkiller. Needless to say he woke up in hospital and not in heaven as he hoped and we are climbing the mountain again.

My range of emotions this week:

Sadness - how can someone feel that utterly desperate?

Guilt - Did I not notice something? How did it come to this? Why is my loved one laid on a life support machine? I sent him away

Anger - How could he do this to me and our children? We love him every day and he wants to leave us

Despair- Are we really that bad? I have spent 7 years climbing the mountain that is his depression and today I'm back at the bottom.

Love - I love him and I never want him to leave this earth feeling unloved.

Desperation - I SO want him to be ok in the desperate hope he feels happiness again one day

Im struggling folks How do you deal with it and keep going? I watched the 'young wives ' programme on ITV tonight. I felt for them awfully but at least they are free to build a new life. No disrespect to what they've lost but I have lost everything and it's still here

We need a tissue glitch

I haven't spoken to my husband in a week. He was in an induced coma the last time I saw him.

I have had loads of PMs too many to answer. I am seeing him tomorrow and we will see what happens. Wish me luck because I feel I will need it. Thanks to all who have shown concern :A

FC there are no words that will make all this better so sending hugs to you. Hope you, your DH and children get lots of support in the time to come

Tinyshoes

And yes DD1 did buy me some , determined to go ginger for my Dotty so he finally takes me off ignore. :rotfl: