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Wrong Item Delivered from Online Order - Can I keep it

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  • PZH
    PZH Posts: 1,599 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Sadly - I don't earn enough money to be able to afford the luxury of morals.

    Morals are FREE
    ...What you earn has a HUGE effect on what you can do.

    Absolute rubbish... An email or phone call to the supplier notifying them of their error is a minuscule cost.

    You never know - they may say you can keep it anyway. (Has been known to happen on many occasion.)

    Then you would be morally correct as well as having the more expensive item.
    I'd like to be able to afford a car that's more eco-friendly, e.g. a hybrid, but that's 2 to 3 times the price of my current car...

    That has nothing to do with morals - that's a choice.
    “That old law about 'an eye for an eye' leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.”
  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    edited 15 January 2015 at 12:18PM
    McKneff wrote: »
    So you would be dishonest as long as you knew you wouldn't get caught.
    JC !!!

    Actually, this applies to most people. There was a very interesting psych study done a few decades ago which examined peoples' 'price' and perceived price of honesty. 20 years ago, most people would steal £10 if they thought they could get away with it. Now it's around £30(ish). In terms of purchasing power, the two amounts are comparable, so, most people are still fundamentally dishonest if they think they can get away with it. The only thing that keeps us honest is the fear of discovery or sanction. The OP changed his tune when he found out that the law could be brought into the equation - until then, his price had clearly been met and exceeded.
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  • PZH
    PZH Posts: 1,599 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    FireWyrm wrote: »
    ...so, most people are still fundamentally dishonest if they think they can get away with it.

    Which is a really sad state of affairs...
    FireWyrm wrote: »
    The only thing that keeps us honest is the fear of discovery or sanction....

    Or being a better person than what some people in society appear to be these days perhaps.
    “That old law about 'an eye for an eye' leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.”
  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    PZH wrote: »
    Which is a really sad state of affairs...

    It's human nature. We are an avaricial species. In fact, all higher mammals are. Chimps will do the same thing. It is part of our survival instinct. What has gone wrong is where we have fixated on things that do not necessarily impact on our survival in a real sense.

    PZH wrote: »
    Or being a better person than what some people in society appear to be these days perhaps.

    Being self righteous and sanctimonious works too.
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
    Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
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  • PZH
    PZH Posts: 1,599 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    FireWyrm wrote: »
    Being self righteous and sanctimonious works too.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


    By the way - I wasn't having a go - I actually agree with what you said
    “That old law about 'an eye for an eye' leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.”
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