Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 12

rockm87

Morning All, hope you had a great BH, despite the weather.

so CD 21 2WW. knackered, achy, but I usually am every other month...so who knows!

FreddieFrugal

Hope your next cycle is a better length cats2012 and good luck for this month

FreddieFrugal

rockm87 wrote: »

so CD 21 2WW.

Ditto! Race you to the finish!

MovingUp

Just after some advice ladies.

We suffered a miscarriage 2 weeks ago. We obviously want to try again. At the hospital they said to wait 2 months before trying again. I cannot find the logic for this anywhere. Things I read online suggest we can start trying again immediately. Is there any reason not to? We have DTD unprotected once in the hope something might happen.

Our logic is that it took us 4-5 months to get pregnant in the first place. What is the harm in trying straight away, either my body will allow it or not. Is this the wrong way to look at it? I'm so confused!

MancMama4

Lulu I am so happy to read about your BFP on the CB digi - just a lovely start to the week, and end to August! Many congrats and wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

Millie/Cats sorry to hear that AF has made her unwanted appearance... fingers crossed that September is your month.

I love to see BFPs on here, its the only place I feel genuinely over the moon without a twinge of jealousy, can't seem to do that in real life at the minute.

CD7 here and putting the CBFM to good use, waiting for Peak days. Got some Conceive+ as well so ready to rock cycle 6!

Have a great day all x

boat_girl

Congrats Lulu, really pleased for you.
MovingUp, unfortunately I have had a few miscarriages and my understanding is it helps with dating if you leave a gap. Also if you were pregnant a while it helps you recover, I lost one at 16 weeks and they asked us to leave a 3 month gap which was fine by me as we were not ready but having had a few 6 week miscarriages we were not told to leave a gap at all but maybe they thought we knew the drill by then?

FreddieFrugal

MovingUp wrote: »

Just after some advice ladies.

We suffered a miscarriage 2 weeks ago. We obviously want to try again. At the hospital they said to wait 2 months before trying again. I cannot find the logic for this anywhere. Things I read online suggest we can start trying again immediately. Is there any reason not to? We have DTD unprotected once in the hope something might happen.

Our logic is that it took us 4-5 months to get pregnant in the first place. What is the harm in trying straight away, either my body will allow it or not. Is this the wrong way to look at it? I'm so confused!

I think it depends how far along the pregnancy was. Our last (and first) pregnancy was surgically terminated for medical reasons at 12 weeks. We were advised to wait until she'd had one full cycle and then start trying if we felt ready.

But since termination was 1st July, first AF since 10th August, OV happened 25th August, that is only one week short of 2 months between the termination and possible (please!!) next conception.

So depending on dates, wait 2 months could be the same as waiting for one normal cycle.

Toots14

Congratulations Lulu :j

AF due on Friday and so hoping it doesn't come as we have a wedding on Friday.

kellykins

Winner of August BFP -(1)


September BFP!


lulu BFP - 1/9/15 :j:j


September BFP predictions

Kellykins: 3


Thread Graduates

LittleMoog - BFP 2/7/15
HighlandLass-BFP 5/7/15
me-charlotte - 12/7/15
Black Ribboner- 20/7/15
sexymouse - 31/8/15

kellykins

Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD26 Toots14-11DPO:cool:
CD29 Kellykins - 11DPO:cool:
CD24 chickp- 8DPO:cool:
CD21 rockm87-7DPO:cool:

"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD85 saver-j-Awaiting ov
CD85 ThePug-Awaiting ov
CD80 MovingUp- Awaiting ov
CD70 fairydust15 -Awaiting ov
CD66 Roz_V-Awaiting ov
CD64 aileth- Awaiting ov
CD61 Vampiric Addiction- Awaiting ov
CD57 ncsmummy - Awaiting ov
CD39 2ba3c-Awaiting ov
CD37 ThinkPink- Awaiting ov
CD35 angel11-Awaiting ov
CD32 Milliebob-Awaiting ov
CD31 Mortgage Reduction Novice-Awaiting ov
CD29 sexymouse - Awaiting ov
CD26 Cyantist- Awaiting ov
CD19 Cuilean-Awaiting ov
CD15 jtr2803-Awaiting ov
CD13 Lemon Tree-Awaiting ov
CD7 MancMama4-Awaiting ov

"Wine and Chocolate" zone

CD3 Pickle25-Awaiting ov
CD1 Milliebob-Awaiting ov
CD1 cats2012-Awaiting ov


Those we haven't heard from in a while
sunnydayz
Vince Vaughn
Bluegreen143
4nnabella
Crystal85
Hollydog
Keepergirl
flower10
Hbex
Scaps
Snapping Crocodile
babyb06


Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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