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how many christmas cards do you send/receive?

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  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,874 Forumite
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    I send about 70 I think, although mine are all hand-made by me. I would only send an e-card as a last resort if the only way of contacting someone as it just isn't the same to me.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

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  • I've cut back considerably, mainly due to the cost of postage - which is a shame as I think the cost of cards has come down. I used to have to stock up in the Jan sales to get the amount I needed at a sensible cost.
    This year I have about 30 on my list - about 20 of which will need posting.
    I do think it's ok to cut back on people you hardly see any more (apart from the odd old friend that always sends a nice letter) but must admit that when someone I know well tells me they are "not doing cards this year" I do think they are a bit miserable. I like to receive cards and put them up as part of my decorations.
  • nicegirl
    nicegirl Posts: 190 Forumite
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    I give them to our immediate families but more because they expect them. I think they're a waste of money and I'm not fussed about giving or receiving them.

    We are still on a pack of 20 cards that I bought a few years ago! :rotfl:
  • I stopped given them last year as I couldn't justify the postage and I have always had a policy of not giving them to people who I see near Christmas as I can verbally wish them a happy time. I usually relent and send couple to the elderly friends of the family who don't get all this new fangled Internet malarky but I say Happy Christmas over facebook to everybody else. Kind of tight but what is the point of posting bits of card to each other?
    "'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, this life
    Try to make ends meet
    You're a slave to money then you die"
  • I haven't sent any Christmas cards for the last few years as I would rather donate to charity (my charity of choice is the Salvation Army), I do receive a few cards but not so many.
    Jo x:A
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    I only send cards through the post to my mum and my aunts, as they do expect them (and display them all) so I do it, and don't really grudge doing so.

    I don't send/give cards to anyone else who I will actually see over the christmas period. I don't display my cards either, they get put in a pile on the living room window sill until i'm taking my decorations down at new year, then the cards get binned.
  • On the whole, I do not send cards....birthday or Christmas...they are too expensive really for a bit of card that goes on to the mantle-piece for a week or so and then is binned (or hopefully recycled!) - and that's before you count the extortionate postage!


    I do not send many cards....generally I make a few for special friends, cross stich embroidery usually.


    For others. I will send an e-mail....maybe design my own e-card with images I know they wii appreciate


    Having moved in to sheltered housing I send a cars to some of the residents her...for some of them it may well be the only card they get.
  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
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    I send a lot more cards than I receive, very few younger people send out cards. But as long as they enjoy receiving them then I'm happy!
  • oldtractor
    oldtractor Posts: 2,262 Forumite
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    if I'd kept in touch with old friends then I'd send about 80. Sadly i have lost touch with many people and now only send about 35.
  • I send very few Christmas cards now.


    We, too, started donating to charity at work rather than buying cards, and I do it every year now.
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