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Is it time the thanks button was dispensed with? It encourages bullying from cliques.

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  • paulsad
    paulsad Posts: 1,315 Forumite
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    Does that mean nobody loves me? Gutted...
  • torbrex
    torbrex Posts: 71,340 Forumite
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    lovinituk wrote: »
    Yes, I've seen this before. Just goes to show how meaningless it is.

    if it is that meaningless, why do you even pay attention to who thanked who?
  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    torbrex wrote: »
    if it is that meaningless, why do you even pay attention to who thanked who?
    I thought I said above that I generally don't?!
  • bugslet
    bugslet Posts: 6,874 Forumite
    paulsad wrote: »
    Does that mean nobody loves me? Gutted...

    And sometimes I thank to soothe hurt feelings:rotfl:
  • Many people use the thanks button to signify agreement with the sentiment of the post. I don't agree it encourages cliques or bullying.
  • I do not use modern social media, where everyone seem to 'like' everything and everyone, which devalues things in my opinion. 'Thanks' on here often seems used in the same way.

    I try to use 'Thanks' sparingly, when a post has supplied interesting and useful information - a tip about cheap mobile broadband sims was one example. I have used it to welcome people whose first post looks good.

    I look for quality not quantity. I just ignore posts that add nothing of value to any discussion.
    Who having known the diamond will concern himself with glass?

    Rudyard Kipling


  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 35,964 Forumite
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    I just think anyone taking it that seriously needs to step away from the computer, engage in a spot of real life and regain some perspective.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
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