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How long would you wait for payment of items?

I'm new to Ebay and a buyer has won 3 items from me and not paid for them. How long should I give them to pay? It's about £150 now and they are still bidding on more items. Should I block them and if I do can they leave me bad feedback?
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  • campdave
    campdave Posts: 2,198 Forumite
    If they are bidding on more of your items, they will likely be assuming they will be able to combine postage.

    A friendly message asking if they could drop you a line when they're done so you can send a combined invoice might put your mind at rest.

    If they're bidding on other items, if I were a buyer, I would find it odd to be pestered for items I've won when I was bidding on other items of yours.

    You have plenty of time to open a NPB case and get your fees refunded in the unlikely event they don't pay.
  • RainbowDrops
    RainbowDrops Posts: 4,674 Forumite
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    As campdave says, it's best to drop them a message to organised combined postage.
    How long has it been since they bought the first items?


    And just to flip to a paranoid angle, are they possibly a competitor trying to secure your items?
  • densol_2
    densol_2 Posts: 1,189 Forumite
    How long are we talking ?
    Do you offer combined postage ?
    What are the items ? Are they high risk phones etc ?

    I sell plus size clothing and offer combined - so people tend to bid over a couple of days then get an invoice at the end. But that's relatively low value items ( £10 or so )

    I have to say your buyer would make me nervous!

    Send a nice little message noting the wins and the current bidding and ask if they plan to pay all at once ?

    Check their feedback - received and given very carefully - how long they been a member ?

    If you don't get a response within say 24 hours - I'd open a non paid case and also block the buyer
    Stuck on the carousel in Disneyland's Fantasyland :D

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  • linni
    linni Posts: 1,480 Forumite
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    Thanks for your replies. It isn't anything to do with combined postage. The bids were totally separate and on different days. I only realised when I was writing the postage label. The items are clothing and were packed separately.

    I sent a polite message asking when they would be paying for the items (1&2) and they replied saying 'Tuesday' but I didn't receive payment. In the meantime they bid on a 3rd item. I've heard nothing at all from the buyer.

    Trouble is, I might not sell at all, or get such a good bid, if I have to re-list the items. People might think there is something wrong with the items.

    It was at the weekend so only a few days, but when should I start to do something about it?

    I am trying to read all the Ebay guides & help but there is so much of it!
  • linni
    linni Posts: 1,480 Forumite
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    edited 7 November 2014 at 2:38PM
    I'd open a non paid case and also block the buyer
    If I do this, will they know? Because they would be less likely to pay.

    I'm a little disappointed, I just thought I'd have a clear out of stuff we haven't worn. All the other buyers paid immediately.
  • densol_2
    densol_2 Posts: 1,189 Forumite
    linni wrote: »
    If I do this, will they know? Because they would be less likely to pay.

    I'm a little disappointed, I just thought I'd have a clear out of stuff we haven't worn. All the other buyers paid immediately.

    Yes they would - and thinking about it more they might then pay for what they have and then give bad feedback. I do find that people either pay for my stuff within 24 hours or they never do ( unless they message me first and let me know )

    I've only had a couple of people pay after I started the non payment case. If you start the case they either pay or you close it after 8 days and u get your fees returned.

    If they said they will pay Tues gone and still haven't ? Not looking good.
    Stuck on the carousel in Disneyland's Fantasyland :D

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    Retired in 2015 ( ill health ) Actuary for legal services.
  • densol_2
    densol_2 Posts: 1,189 Forumite
    Oh and don't worry about people remembering previous listings ! I've had stuff on this week that never sold previously and there has been a bidding war on some of the items !! Lol mad :-)
    Stuck on the carousel in Disneyland's Fantasyland :D

    I live under a bridge in England
    Been a member for ten years.
    Retired in 2015 ( ill health ) Actuary for legal services.
  • linni
    linni Posts: 1,480 Forumite
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    I've had stuff on this week that never sold previously and there has been a bidding war on some of the items !! Lol mad :-)

    HA HA That's good news then :)
  • Norman_Castle
    Norman_Castle Posts: 11,871 Forumite
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    edited 7 November 2014 at 3:39PM
    How new are you to ebay?. A friend who was new to ebay listed a trailer worth £1800. I cannot remember the details but he had some very dubious and unlikely buying offers. How much feedback does this buyer have?. Personally I would block them and avoid sending anything. If you only have a minimum amount of feedback you have little to loose. If this suspicious buyer does rubbish you you can leave and start again.

    As a new seller I would learn about ebay with cheap items. Its cheaper if things go wrong!.
  • linni
    linni Posts: 1,480 Forumite
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    edited 7 November 2014 at 3:53PM
    I'm new to selling. I have good feedback as a buyer so wouldn't want to start again, only been doing it a couple of months altogether. I was trying to build up good feedback I've read so much bad stuff about Ebay I dreaded selling stuff but needed money.
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