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  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    Hope you get that positive letter soon Lucky, and can then relax (well, at least as far as PIP is concerned).

    Rx
  • Fizzy11
    Fizzy11 Posts: 136 Forumite
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    Not been on here for ages & im glad to see you're still being an inspiration. Don't beat yourself up about your mood, it's quite understandable why you feel the way you do. In my experience the letters arrive at a weekend so hopefully your worry can be put to bed.

    Hope it's sorted soon. Enjoy the school holidays.
  • Mummy the film was quite good (all the better for Chris Hemsworth being in it which I hadn't realised! :p). Boys all enjoyed it.

    Lovely to hear from you Robin, how are you doing? I miss your updates!

    Fizzy, you have a very valid point about the letters arriving at the weekend! Maybe it's so you can't ring up while you are angry and might have simmered down by the Monday!!!

    Went to my friend's house last night for a girly night as she's getting divorced so we offered wine and support. Was nice to get together wven under the circumstances Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    Lovely to hear from you Robin, how are you doing? I miss your updates!

    Well I missed everyone in Diaryland too, and found it very hard to join in from Lurkdom, so:
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5495287 ;)
    Fizzy, you have a very valid point about the letters arriving at the weekend! Maybe it's so you can't ring up while you are angry and might have simmered down by the Monday!!!

    ..Never thought of that, but it makes sense!
    Went to my friend's house last night for a girly night as she's getting divorced so we offered wine and support. Was nice to get together wven under the circumstances Xx

    Hope your friend is ok, Lucky, and manages to remain amicable with her ex (especially if they've got kids together).
  • Will be rushing round to your diary for a cuppa and a catch up tout suite Robin!

    Brown envelope arrived in post today, destinctive DWP style. Was slightly concerned at how thin it felt, and opened it to read something along the lines of 'sorry it's taking so long to make a decision, we'll get back to you' :eek::(:mad:.

    Robin, friend's DH attacked her infront of the children. I think she's being overly amicable in the circumstances! She's being very brave but we are making sure she knows she doesn't have to be, and we are all here for her.

    Took the boys trampolining today. Sat in traffic over an hour to get home due to 3 separate accidents :(. Take care peeps Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,026 Forumite
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    How frustrating about the letter :( Your friend is very lucky to have such supportive friends to ease her through a bad time.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
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    Robin, friend's DH attacked her infront of the children. I think she's being overly amicable in the circumstances! She's being very brave but we are making sure she knows she doesn't have to be, and we are all here for her.

    Oh no! :mad: ..Hope the children have someone trusted and caring, but outside their immediate family to talk to for reassurance and to help them move forward..
  • Yes Robin, it's all in hand for the girls. The schools were informed as it happened during the last week of term, and teachers have been wonderful. It's early days but lots of friends and family are rallying round.

    Was up and out early this morning and got some food shopping in as we were getting desperate. £30 spent and hopefully that will do us for a good few days - can't seem to fill the boys up at the moment! They have asked to make cakes this morning and I've found a packet of cake mix in the cupboard that was best before June. I'm assuming it won't be poisonous?!

    Work later so just pottering today. DH has gone to gym with a friend this morning. Hoping he'll be ok as he was very vague yesterday and then very jerky in the night. He insisted he was well enough to go though, so what can you do?!
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • beanielou
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    What can you do indeed.
    Happy cake baking. Will be fine I am sure.
    I am going to use my out of date eggs later.
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  • Friend dropped DH back on one piece!

    Cake is made, just cooling before they decorate it. If I don't ever post againyou know why :rotfl: Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
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