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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • Awww beanie I'm so sorry to read that you're having such a tough time lately. I do hope things take turn for the better soon. ☹️xxx
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  • KajiKita
    KajiKita Posts: 8,346 Forumite
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    beanielou said:
    It’s a week to the big day & I still have nothing for my DS. I want at least something for him to open. 
    What kind of things does he enjoy? 
    Is there anything he needs? 
    Could you do anything with the “something you want, something you need, something to wear and something to read.”?

    KK
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,589 Ambassador
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    KajiKita said:
    beanielou said:
    It’s a week to the big day & I still have nothing for my DS. I want at least something for him to open. 
    What kind of things does he enjoy? 
    Is there anything he needs? 
    Could you do anything with the “something you want, something you need, something to wear and something to read.”?

    KK
    Am just totally stuck.  However that's a good starting point.  Thank you  x
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  • badmemory
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    Well I am sure you will think of something better than me.  T-shirts, jumper, underpants & socks.  Made up with an amazon gift card.  What I can do which you can't is whenever one of the above gets worn I bin it.  As his birthday is late in the year I have a serious purge in January.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,589 Ambassador
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    badmemory said:
    Well I am sure you will think of something better than me.  T-shirts, jumper, underpants & socks.  Made up with an amazon gift card.  What I can do which you can't is whenever one of the above gets worn I bin it.  As his birthday is late in the year I have a serious purge in January.
    I can’t think of anything exciting! 

    Horrified to learn that Pringle of Scotland socks are now made in China!! 
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,589 Ambassador
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    One of the best gifts that I got my son was a small metal bowl with a magnetic base.  Apparently it’s great if you take things apart.  
    Can’t quite visualise. Will ask Mr G00gle. 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • skint_spice
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    My DS was going to come back to me with links for gifts but it never happened! He will be getting his favourite aftershave and a voucher for a local restaurant chain that he loves.
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