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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.

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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,621 Forumite
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    Definitely keep pacing yourself.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,109 Forumite
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    Glad you saw a friend. Sounds like the company gave you a lift.

    Good that your mum got a home visit and is hopefully now on better meds.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Hope the meds work for your mum.
    Nothing wrong with pacing yourself…..it’s a tough habit to get used to though. Stick with it 👍
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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,944 Forumite
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    Beanie I'm sorry you've had such a rough time. I doubt you will trust that your Mum is on the mend until you actually see her. Are you still looking after her cat?! 

    Definitely pace yourself - baby steps, remember. they are small, but they'll get you there. 
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  • jwil
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    Rest up and recover.  Sorry about your friend as well.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,017 Ambassador
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    jwil said:
    Rest up and recover.  Sorry about your friend as well.
    Thanks. 

    Money incoming today so allocated & cc cleared. Waitrose delivery due later including things for my mum which I intend to deliver tomorrow. 
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Oh what a shame ☹️ I would be upset too. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,615 Forumite
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    Hope you get to see your mum. Poor cleaning lady hope she heals quickly. 
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