Is she in the wrong?

shoe*diva79

Yes, they know the charges but still think my SIL should pay the £50 cancellation charge on top. Personally I think thats ludicrous given the charges were down to both her cousins not doing what they said.

Cousin 1 has said its entirely my SIL fault for booking when the cousins hadn't given her the money. Even though they were all in agreement when the money was supposed to be transferred.

[Deleted User]

Well done to your SIL.., she's doing the right thing. People who behave like this aren't worth keeping a close relationship with. I hope she is able to continue to leave them to sort it out between them.

paddyrg

No good deed goes unpunished - accept she's been reamed by selfish extended family and make damn sure never to get in that position again. For Christmas they just get a Toblerone from Poundland for the next few years, though.

BitterAndTwisted

If they were my cousins they wouldn't be getting a ruddy sniff of a Toblerone from me. Ever.

What a shoddy way to treat someone, never mind a family member. They should be ashamed of themselves!


Still, it sounds like she's had a very narrow escape. Imagine going on holiday with these users?

shoe*diva79

I doubt they will be receiving a christmas card, let alone a bar of chocolate!