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Buying my ex out of the house

I have recently separated. My ex wants me to buy him out.
We pay for the house £ 345.000 7 years ago, our outstanding mortgage is £ 184.000, the house now is worth £ 425 aprox.
I calculated that we have paid so far £161 , so would I have to give him half of this ( £80.500 ) which is the money he has contributed over the years regardless of the value of the house, is this correct?
Thank you
E

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  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    Nope, you would need to give them the difference between the current value and the remaining mortgage (the equity) Also you would have to remortgage for the outstanding balance + half the equity.
  • prowla
    prowla Posts: 14,195 Forumite
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    425k - 184k = 241k equity.
    241k / 2 = 120k each (plus 1k to cover costs).

    (The alternative is to sell the house and split the profit.)
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    The calculations have been done for you and you would have to apply to take over the mortgage in your own sole name and raise £120k to buy out your ex which means you would need a mortgage of £304,000 unless you have savings or other income you could use. Of course that only works if your income is enough to cover that. The alternative is to do as #3 suggests and sell the house and split the proceeds and start again, both of you with £120k. If you are married and have kids though this would all be sorted in the divorce settlement and may not necessarily be a 50/50 split.
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