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Mrs_Muckle
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In May this year I left my controlling marriage and moved over 300 miles away to a place of safety. I was pursued here by my husband who called the police several times to do welfare checks, he is sure that by leaving him I must be insane, and to try and get my friend arrested for kidnap and violence.
He has now settled down and I have left the refuge and living independently. I have been living off savings up till now but having paid a six month rental up front I am rapidly running out of cash. I am not confident enough to get a job, I have applied for some and even had two interviews but my lack of confidence is holding me back!
My question is does anyone know if I can get any help while I try and find work. I am going away on retreat in December as I cannot face Christmas without my family, my four children are back where I used to live and they have their own families.
Any suggestions?
Mrs M
He has now settled down and I have left the refuge and living independently. I have been living off savings up till now but having paid a six month rental up front I am rapidly running out of cash. I am not confident enough to get a job, I have applied for some and even had two interviews but my lack of confidence is holding me back!
My question is does anyone know if I can get any help while I try and find work. I am going away on retreat in December as I cannot face Christmas without my family, my four children are back where I used to live and they have their own families.
Any suggestions?
Mrs M
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That looks hopeful. Can get housing benefit and in 2029 I can get my state pension! LolWant to join SPC90
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Do you stil have savings?0
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Mrs_Muckle wrote: »That looks hopeful. Can get housing benefit and in 2029 I can get my state pension! Lol
Bless you. Hope things get better for you soon x0 -
Could you stay with some of your family till you can get sorted out financially and find a job.
Good luck in finding one by the way.
You can do it, and you will do it. Well done for having the confidence to get away from the bully. That in itself probably took more confidence that getting a job.
xx
Anniemake the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0
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