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cjj_2

Emma, hope you are soon feeling better. Hugs xx

Picasso7

asset2004 wrote: »

I am so annoyed with myself, found a £10 APG in my bag and it expired last friday can I put it in again it or has it gone forever

You can try. It will scan if the SA doesn't notice and refuse to accept it...

mutley_muppet

EMMAP wrote: »

Most unusual thing in my handbag at the moment is a lego 'where are my pants' figure from the lego movie. It was a present from a colleague and it's been in there for months.

Afternoon all. Feeling very low today. I've got no right to considering all the things other people are going through but I found out the guy I ended things with last year (because he couldn't commit) has got a new girlfriend....who he is proudly calling his girlfriend. He didn't have the balls to tell me himself, just stopped talking to me last month and I found out by accident.

I've been crying on and off all week and I'm having trouble adjusting to working from home. This isn't helping my concentration and I feel miserable and don't want to do anything at all.

Sorry for the pity party.

Aww hugs to you Emma. I expect a lot of us here have been in a similar situation and it does hurt. Just try to remember that the girl he is proudly calling his girlfiend will probably be yesterday's news in a few months.
You deserve better hun, so get your crying done, brush that fella off and kick him to the kerb! I bet you in a few months time you will look back and think, what on earth was I wasting energy on that loser for??

Starting a new job is always stressful, especially if you are not used to working from home? It must be strange not to have that daily interaction with others and the direct feedback that comes with it?

Try and pamper yourself today hun, have something nice to eat & drink and run yourself a lovely bubble bath. If you have any rescue remedy in the house have a few drops as it can really help with emotional stuff.

purpledonkey

I just had a very non MSE morning. I drove 30 miles for a dunkin' donut and I don't regret it!

jumblejack

Locarr, I think you just proved the expression, 'men think, women feel', very conclusively just now.

The gender gap is a huge gulf :eek:

Definitely Venus vs Mars

cjj_2

Dr O pizza, pep and salami compared v M today. Hth

mimi1234

EMMAP - sorry to hear about your problems. You need something special in your life, like a bag of crisps or a pizza or a huge bag of chocolates. They won't ever hurt you, you can always top them up and they never answer back either. I fell in love with crisps and I have never looked back.

I hope things get better in time.

Mumto2monkeys

jumblejack wrote: »

Locarr, I think you just proved the expression, 'men think, women feel', very conclusively just now.

The gender gap is a huge gulf :eek:

DefinitelyVenus vs Mars

Ooo have you read the book, women are from Venus, men are from mars... It's a very good read:)


Good afternoon everyone :wave:

mimi1234

tweets wrote: »

:dance::dance::dance: :j:j:j :D:D :T:T:T

tweets is so happy _party__party__party_

Happening? Have you gone and bought another one of those saucy tops (if you can call it that?) from Ann Summers?

Arthien

Wheres_My_Cashback wrote: »

And if he did would he then be accused of rubbing it in? He can't win !

I could be wrong, but I'd say it's not so much that he has a new gf, or that he's told E about her, but that the relationship failed because he was unable to commit (and, I assume, unwilling to call her his gf in public), both of which he seems to be doing just fine now that he has a new gf. The end result is that E is left feeling that it was her that was the problem, not him, and that if she'd been different in any number of ways, he would have treated her the way he's treating the new gf.

I don't mean to generalise, but in my experience lots of women often aren't very nice to themselves when it comes to over-thinking about relationships

Note to Emma: This of course is NOT the case, and it's just the way things have worked out. Some things are just not meant to be. Also, there is every chance she'll be in your shoes in just a few months, as people don't usually change all that much, and certainly not long-term, even if they can maintain a façade for a short while.

I also agree with the other posters who are saying don't give him the space in your brain, he'd probably enjoy the fact that you're wasting precious minutes/hours thinking about him, and you wouldn't want to give him that satisfaction.