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  • I wouldn't worry he is the one that should feel awkward not you. That makes it even worse that he is continuing to lie.

    Good job you checked Facebook. Xx
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  • Def agree with Laura chin up boobs out and show him what he lost being a dic*head, baffles me how they think they will get away with it with social media as massive as it is everywhere now, God I know what neighbours are wearing before they do half the time lol x
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  • monz
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    Yeh I text him this morning n nothing today. So I don't know what to think tbh her fb still says in a relationship n he's her profile pic with her. Fml lol I wd have sent u pics I took befor he deactivated it. Was so mad I was ready to message her lol xx
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  • abba1772
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    Message the girlfriend....I would xx

    Sorry it didn't go to plan but his loss xx love the boobs out mantra xx
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  • laurag89
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    I was also going to say message her, it is only fair she knows what a snake her boyfriend is.
    Then again maybe hold your head up high and feel relieved you found out before getting into a relationship with him. :)
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  • Sorry to hear your date was a flop Monz but definitely have to agree with everyone else and say you are probably better off. I feel sorry for the gf as it's obvious he is playing around.

    The perfect guy for you will show up when you are least expecting it. That's what happened with me and my OH :)

    Take care Hon

    October xx
  • laurag89
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    Sorry to hear your date was a flop Monz but definitely have to agree with everyone else and say you are probably better off. I feel sorry for the gf as it's obvious he is playing around.

    The perfect guy for you will show up when you are least expecting it. That's what happened with me and my OH :)

    Take care Hon

    October xx

    I completely agree!!! I met my OH when I had completely given up on finding love.
    I went through some horrible ones to find him x
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Thanks everyone but after my ex and this (found out last night he's blocked me on fb - even though I never sent a friend request) and must obv blocked my number too. Can't believe it tbh. Feel miserable.

    My loan payment has came out so updated my signature xx

    Oh and ps I have a plan.

    If he's working Saturday n ignores/ cheeky to me I'm messaging his gf.
    If he talks to me n I'm still not happy I'm messaging her
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  • Fab plan I would add if he's breathing I will message her too lol


    Fab news on the signature x


    Have you seen that 1p a day challenge knocking around on facebook that one looks fab 1p first day, 2p second day, end up with £3.65 by end of year x
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  • laurag89
    laurag89 Posts: 728 Forumite
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    I think that's a fair plan to be honest!!

    Aloofdragon that made me laugh, I saw a challenge on Facebook to save £1300 or something like that?
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