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Need to get myself together: The beginning

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  • Much love to you both.

    Dxxx
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    I am back!

    Thank you Abba for letting everyone know for me, I was a little bit all over the place.

    What happened was my boys appendix had perforated and attached itself to his bladder and stomach as well as there was puss all over his organs nearing his heart. It was really hard time etc and after his operation my poor boy could not move his head day after. The good news is we got out yesterday and hes a brand new boy <3!!! He will be back at school Wednesday for a half day and see how it goes from there.

    I get paid on Thursday. We are getting backdated bonus pay and I saw my wage slip so £500 to my mum and dad meaning that after that £2,700 to pay them back so will get there.

    I have painted my livingroom now. So just awaiting plasterer getting back to me and my sons room shall soon be completed :) xx

    Thank you everyone for your posts and thank you Abba, PMO2 and Dolly for keeping me sane in last week with your texts <3
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  • Homegrown0
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    Good grief! What an awful situation for your poor boy (and you!) to be in! So glad he's on the mend now.

    Good news about the money, your mum and dad will be paid off in no time at all!
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  • abba1772
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    Just glad I could help you in any way monz your little boy is defo a trouper xx
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Abba you were a big help! I have sent my complaint in about that nurse now! Kept thinking could happen to another child and no way will I ever let that happen again!

    2 days until payday and the plasterer is coming out Friday night to do my sons room... is it wrong i think the plasterer is quite nice to look at.... haha xx
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • Hi lovely,

    So pleased that he is better, what a worry for you :(

    Good on you for putting in a complaint, I hope she gets the sack! :mad:

    Yay to the extra money, your parents will be paid off soon enough.

    Hope that the 'plastering' gets sorted ;) :rotfl: you'll soon have your house how you want it, I'm loving the photo's :)

    Big hugs to you both xxx
  • abba1772
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    I think have a nice looking plasterer takes the sting out of how much it costs :rotfl:
    NEXT TARGET: Halifax credit card DEC 22 £0 / £4499.12
    POAMAYC 2011 £6378.35 POAMAYC 2012 £5000.78
    POAMAYC 2013 £3480.04 POAMAYC 2014 £4085.14
    POAMAYC 2015 £7565.24 POAMAYC 2016 £8000.90 POAMAYC 2017 £7278.80 POAMAYC 2018 £13208.18POAMAYC 2019 £13309.28 POAMAYC 2020 £15026.05
  • kindofagilr
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    So sorry to hear your LO was really poorly :( I am pleased he is on the mend xxx
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  • Homegrown0
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    monz wrote: »
    ... is it wrong i think the plasterer is quite nice to look at.... haha xx

    Not wrong at all! I have a thing for tradesmen...well, not all of them! Mainly my husband :rotfl:
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    Pay off by Xmas 2019 #02 - target £10,000
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Payday is tomorrow finally!!! Do not like 5 week months :(

    Will pay my mum and dad £500 towards their debt and once mortgage payment off will try round it out again. :) xx
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
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