Need to get myself together: The beginning

monz

I had him bring in chocolates and a letter. I phoned the school also to see what happened and if this is an occurance etc. Also about lack of communication. I also told deputy head that he has been grounded for it and he got the girl a letter n chocolate... feel like I sold him down a river though my mum said I should not have said abt his punishment I feel awful.... due to get a phone call at lunch time xxx

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monz wrote: »

my mum said I should not have said abt his punishment

We always tell the school what sanctions have been imposed and our two are at secondary school, we did the same at primary school too xx

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Aw monz, can't be easy all this.

Sending hugs.

Dxxx

monz

Spoke to school and now I have huge mammy guilt... Turns out the we girl wasnt doing her work and was trying to wind my boy up and he turned to try swat her away and she got hit by a pencil. The teacher sorted it and didnt tell anyone as nothing to tell and they wondering who the lil snitch was grassing him up.

I feel so terrible. They were like we were just commenting how welll your son is doing and how far he has came so I mentioned TKD and playing for Scotland and they are going to give him a special mention in next assembly if he could bring in his medals to show how proud they are.

I need to take him out tonight after tkd (life his grounding) and buy him something. I feel like worst mum ever I even used the line disappointed and everything my poor we boy was in tears and he has a we soul that takes things to heart.... I am feeling like sh*t xxx

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Oh don't be to hard on yourself, you know you were only going on the information provided to you at the time by the school.

Just enjoy some time with him and it will all be fine.

You are not a bad Mum monz.

Dxxx

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As Dolly said, don't be so hard on yourself.

You did what you had to based on the information you had at the time and I'd have done the same thing, thinking about it...I think I probably have done

You're certainly not a bad mum and if parenting was easy, everyone would do it.

How lovely of the school to ask him to bring in his medals and for the mention in assembly, you must be very proud and rightly so :T

Sending lots of hugs xxx

abba1772

Bless you monz you're in no way a bad mum if my kid said to me they hit someone I would have flipped my lid too

You've got a good boy there and by you apologising to him he'll see that even adults get it wrong sometimes xx

monz

Just had word that the deputy head was so proud hearing he is competing for Scotland next month she got him up on stage and said how proud she is of him and asked him to bring medals in as he is doing brill. He sounded so proud on the phone

abba1772

monz wrote: »

Just had word that the deputy head was so proud hearing he is competing for Scotland next month she got him up on stage and said how proud she is of him and asked him to bring medals in as he is doing brill. He sounded so proud on the phone

Aww that's lovely xx

monz

Morning!

Had a lovely quiet weekend and stayed in and was off fb also. Completed week one insanity and can see a difference already . Week 2 starts after work tonight. I was going to get up at 5am but cd not sleep cos saddo like I am saw kylie jenner had her baby n was on internet all night like it was a family member.... I need one those things called a life I heard about haha

My VO is at £11.65 but my dads birthday is next month so going to cash out £15.

Awaiting £10 still from a survey. Will go email and ask about that. Due another £20 from another think will be this week. I do not know if this is paypal or amazon yet If paypal then this is going into house fund that I have kind of attacked oops! £50 cheque is on way from newvista and again house deposit once here.

17 days until payday. I will be having another quiet weekend this one and its my boys comp on Sunday !! I cannot wait for that, he is so laidback and I am nervous lol.

Hope all is well.

PS that friend kept texting and ending calling me crying how she has noone to trust... funny that I dont trust her either and made it all about her again.. just not interested