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Falling off the waggon...

I've closed one credit card account this morning hoorah!, and transferred most of my debt to to my 0%...

Great step forward I hear you cry... now for the 9 steps backwards:

Yesterday's dentist fees left a gaping hole..
Trying to make myself better with lunch buying and pointless magazine purchases took me another few (£18) quid down the wrong road..
..and internet shopping (arghhh) did i really need to buy a (£45)watch?
had takeaway for tea last night with a £1 delivery charge...

Feel thoroughly miffed with myself today...

Anyone else fallen off the waggon this week? I feel a club starting up lol :o
Proud to have dealt with with my debts
Debt free from 18th March 2013, long may it continue!

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  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Chin up... you have reduced your debt by over £8000 in a year and a half! Ok so you fell off for a day - hey after a dentist visit I would have too! Want to feel better? I just spent £10k on a car ;) (planned purchase etc before anyone has a go ;) )
    SO... it happens, I've fallen off from time to time, but sometimes we need to go a little mad to stay sane and on the right path - it doesn't matter! The difference is that unlike people who haven't had a lightbulb moment YOU know where you went wrong, you KNOW you were trying to console yourself and now you know that it really doesn't work does it? :) Cancel the Watch order if you can - you don't need it! And then start again tomorrow with a clean slate :)
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  • tine wrote: »
    Chin up... you have reduced your debt by over £8000 in a year and a half!

    How easy it is to forget where you started... :rolleyes:
    Proud to have dealt with with my debts
    Debt free from 18th March 2013, long may it continue!
  • Little_Pickle
    Little_Pickle Posts: 3,022 Forumite
    don't be so hard on yourself!
    The dentist was needed wasn't it? Of course it was.... and who likes the dentist? I would have got myself some mags etc after having to experience something as nasty as the dentist! :D

    you're doing brilliantly! don't forget that!
    LP
    xox
  • climbgirl
    climbgirl Posts: 1,504 Forumite
    Ok, so it's a minor slip when you look at how far you've come. Cancel the watch (or return it if it's too late to cancel), you really don't need it.

    The magazines and lunch/takeaways are annoying you so remember how mad at yourself you were for slipping up and think about that next time you're tempted to fall off the wagon.

    It's annoying, but it's not a disastrous blowout. Just remember how bad this felt and don't do it again!
  • Thanks guys... I'll sit on my hands and not open either piggy bank.. at least until this week is over lol

    x
    Proud to have dealt with with my debts
    Debt free from 18th March 2013, long may it continue!
  • CAFCGirl
    CAFCGirl Posts: 9,123 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Its the slips that help us refocus and jump back on the wagon with a renewed vengence!

    Am totally in the same boat as you.... hows £35 on a tattoo for a totally unnecessary cheer myself up?!
    Wealth is not measured by currency
  • betti911
    betti911 Posts: 819 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    You are doing really well and least you've recognised that you've slipped up. Well done in what you've achieved so far though.
    Jan 1st 07 Car loan £4830.46@12% Personal Loan £11,517@8% variable Overdraft £1500 July 2009Halifax-£0Debt free date 14th July 2009 :j
  • CAFCGirl wrote: »
    Am totally in the same boat as you.... hows £35 on a tattoo for a totally unnecessary cheer myself up?!

    Sounds more permanent than a copy of Marie Claire lol... :rolleyes:
    Proud to have dealt with with my debts
    Debt free from 18th March 2013, long may it continue!
  • Hit the ground with a thud today...

    Debts gone up without me spending lol such a joy, and no money left at the end of the month for the car tax and new tyres/brakes...

    Having a water meter would cost me more according to Severn Trent and Powergen won't release me out of such a high payment as I dared to move house in January.. so here goes with the SOA:

    In £1123
    Out Mortgage 314.85
    C/tax 92.00
    Water 18.12
    Car Ins 36.27 - hopefully cheaper next year!
    Home Ins 34.82 - hopefully cheaper next year!
    TV Licence 11.05
    Gas & Elec 74.00
    Cable/landline 15.00
    Loan 142.10 - fixed, no overpayments
    Lloyds Card 32.00
    Nationwide Card 84.00 - 0% to May 2008
    MBNA 55.00
    Simply Be 39.90
    Petrol 80.00 - getting to work on a bus is impossible
    Food 60.00 - beans on toast all the way!
    Clothes 20.00

    £1109
    Proud to have dealt with with my debts
    Debt free from 18th March 2013, long may it continue!
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