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Present for Best Friend's Baby

So my best friend and his wife have had just had a baby girl.

I'm really keen to get the baby a gift that will have some significance and hopefully value/use when they get older.

Problem is, I'm kind of stuck for ideas!

I don't want anything too soppy, as they will be getting a lot of that kind of thing already I think, plus it's as much to mark my valued friendship with the parents as anything.

I was thinking of getting them the gold sovereign from the year of their birth, but that costs about £470 and really I was budgeting up to £200ish (In case they have another one!)

Anyone got any thoughts?
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  • Tixy
    Tixy Posts: 31,455 Forumite
    A half gold sovereign would be within your budget?

    I know someone who gave a baby a case of champagne to be opened on their 18th/21st (not from the supermarket but something direct from a vineyard designed to last/mature)?

    I heard of someone else being given a saxaphone as a birth gift (from an uncle who was a musician) obviously unusual but quite special to that family I guess.

    Is jewellery too soppy? Not necessarily a traditional christening bracelet but something the baby could wear when she grows up?
    A smile enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give
    or "It costs nowt to be nice"
  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,100 Forumite
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    All I can think of is those hand / foot print things. I but I guess you want something different?
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  • Bennifred
    Bennifred Posts: 3,986 Forumite
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  • clw1
    clw1 Posts: 185 Forumite
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    While I think a gold coin would be nice it's also one of those things that gets shoved in a drawer and never looked at so personally I wouldn't go for it.

    Instead how about a small baby gift and a voucher for the couple to go out for a meal in a few months time (and an offer to babysit).

    For the baby I loved getting a blanket embroidered with the childs name / D.O.B. and I have seen some lovely books that you can get personalised eg http://www.gettingpersonal.co.uk/gifts/personalised-childrens-encyclopaedia.htm

    Or you could get premium bonds for the child.
  • Sezzagirl
    Sezzagirl Posts: 360 Forumite
    Why not get something from this range and then bank the rest of your budget for the baby's future


    http://www.royalmint.com/our-coins/gifts/christening-and-baby-gifts


    I like the set of coins from this year or the lucky sixpence
  • princeofpounds
    princeofpounds Posts: 10,396 Forumite
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    A half gold sovereign would be within your budget?

    Yes it would have been great but to be it just sounds like I bought half a gift, if you know what I mean!
    I know someone who gave a baby a case of champagne to be opened on their 18th/21st (not from the supermarket but something direct from a vineyard designed to last/mature)?

    That's not a bad idea... but storage would be an issue.
    I heard of someone else being given a saxaphone

    Now you might be onto something. My friend is an excellent musician (violin and guitar)
    All I can think of is those hand / foot print things. I but I guess you want something different?

    Haha this was almost exactly what I was thinking of when I talked about soppy things. I actually think they are quite cool, but I don't feel I'm the person to be giving that gift, you know.
  • BigAunty
    BigAunty Posts: 8,310 Forumite
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    Purchase a gift voucher or pay for a commission for a local photographer that specialises in children's photos? I've seen some portfolios of the most amazing baby photos or mother/baby photos, particularly the naturalistic social reportage style rather than the posed.
  • gingin_2
    gingin_2 Posts: 2,992 Forumite
    You could get them a limited edition print, I am thinking in a style that would suit a nursery ( Beatrix Potter or Winnie the Pooh ).

    I actually have something commissioned by this lady, I can't recommend her more highly. Her style is whimsical and fairy tale but with a modern touch.

    http://www.helenmusselwhite.co.uk/

    She's amazing and has had commercial mass produced work done as well, so I think she might take off value wise (it's a risk, I know). It suits from child to adult and she's a really lovely person to communicate with as well if you want something particular.
  • Quackers1
    Quackers1 Posts: 107 Forumite
    I've done things like a nappy cake or flower bouquet - definitely a talking point.

    Beautrix potter things to keep.

    If you use Facebook - search for Not Just Bunting. They do individual letters so when a friend had her 2nd, I got both boys their initial.

    My brother (now 28) was given a case of port to one when he was 21. I was given a silver bracelet.

    We both also had plates made with name, date of birth and weight etc
  • hieveryone
    hieveryone Posts: 3,865 Forumite
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    I was going to suggest the photography idea too, it's my 'go-to' present for new babies!

    A lady round my way does 'casting' - she does casts of newborn babies hands/feet etc, entwined with the mothers/fathers hands too if they want to.

    She also makes jewellery items with prints of the babies fingerprint/hand print which she engraves with details of birth, which is quite nice.


    Bought is to buy. Brought is to bring.
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