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Gifted deposit & solicitor
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TLM_77
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Hi all,
I have been given some inheritance early and want to use some of it for a deposit on a house.
However, we have had crippling debts including a secured loan.
In order to be even considered for moving house, we had to pay all our debt off.
I want desperately to hide my shame and protect her from what will be a really awkward conversation.
What I am now faced with is the solicitor wanting to know where the deposit is coming from - so I have explained some as gift, £25k from equity.
I didn't think it would be classed as a gifted deposit as I'm worried I'd have to disclose to mum how much i'm holding back.
I have been given some inheritance early and want to use some of it for a deposit on a house.
However, we have had crippling debts including a secured loan.
In order to be even considered for moving house, we had to pay all our debt off.
I want desperately to hide my shame and protect her from what will be a really awkward conversation.
What I am now faced with is the solicitor wanting to know where the deposit is coming from - so I have explained some as gift, £25k from equity.
I didn't think it would be classed as a gifted deposit as I'm worried I'd have to disclose to mum how much i'm holding back.
Other than mortgage, debt free since June 2014:)
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Your solicitor is acting for the lender as well as for you. It has to adhere to the lender's requirements including verification of the source of deposit.
It has to report any "non-standard" issues to the lender too.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0 -
If your solicitor is acting for the lender (very likely if (s)he is on the lender's panel) then it is in this capacity that he is requesting confirmation of deposit. Hence, you can tell the solicitor to go forth but don't expect to be offered a mortgage as a result.0
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kingstreet wrote: »Your solicitor is acting for the lender as well as for you. It has to adhere to the lender's requirements including verification of the source of deposit.
It has to report any "non-standard" issues to the lender too.
Kind of assumed this...
But explaining the situation to them seemed to fall on deaf ears.
I think the answer for me will be that I have to be honest and open with mum...and after a near 25 year absence, go back on the naughty step.Other than mortgage, debt free since June 2014:)0 -
TrickyDicky101 wrote: »If your solicitor is acting for the lender (very likely if (s)he is on the lender's panel) then it is in this capacity that he is requesting confirmation of deposit. Hence, you can tell the solicitor to go forth but don't expect to be offered a mortgage as a result.
Would very much like to be able to just deal with the lenders underwriters direct (via broker) as they are apparently far more sympathetic / understanding etc.Other than mortgage, debt free since June 2014:)0 -
Type out a letter.
It should be addressed to the lender and say something along the lines of:Re: Purchase of (Insert address), by (Insert name(s)).
I/We confirm we are gifting our son/daughter, (Insert applicants name) £xx,xxx for the purchase of the above property.
I/We also confirm that this gift is non refundable, non interest baring and I/we will have no rights in the property whatsoever.
Regards,
Signed:
Remove the XXX's and just put .........
Hope that your mum just signs it, you can then fill out the monetary amount yourself.
Have you already applied?
Has the lender not questioned where £90k has come from?
You can get the letter yourself, where there is a gifted deposit, I take the above letter with me to the clients. More often than not it will go through. There is the odd lender who will want their own form completing in which case you will have no option but to disclose it.I am a Mortgage AdviserYou should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.0 -
Hope that your mum just signs it, you can then fill out the monetary amount yourself.
Have you already applied?
Has the lender not questioned where £90k has come from?
You can get the letter yourself, where there is a gifted deposit, I take the above letter with me to the clients. More often than not it will go through. There is the odd lender who will want their own form completing in which case you will have no option but to disclose it.
My mum will sign it no issue there at all.
My mortgage application has been accepted, valuation booked next Wed, providing that is ok, mortgage offer will follow - they have not asked us for any supporting information regarding the deposit.Other than mortgage, debt free since June 2014:)0 -
Just tell your mum the truth - in her position I'd want to know. Think you want to protect yourself from an awkward conversation rather than her - you should really have told her when the idea was first mentioned.0
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Just tell your mum the truth - in her position I'd want to know. Think you want to protect yourself from an awkward conversation rather than her - you should really have told her when the idea was first mentioned.
You're right and I know it.Other than mortgage, debt free since June 2014:)0 -
Hi, I know for a fact that they are NOT on the lenders panelI am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0
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the letter will have to say £50k deposit, not £95k - £45k less is a big gulf to explain!
Best I can do, I'm afraid.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0
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