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New relationship advice needed

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  • schwam66
    schwam66 Posts: 161 Forumite
    no one is THAT busy that they cant reply till the NEXT day.....i certainly wouldnt be rushing into things with this gentlemen, i certainly wouldnt come off the pills or any other contraseption either, as one poster said the streess of kids can make things only worse so if he hasnt got time for you now, how will he have time for you AND a child......
  • He wants it all ASAP? I would be a bit worried if a guy was that full on so soon into a new relationship.
  • whodathunkit
    whodathunkit Posts: 1,130 Forumite
    Have you visited or stayed at his home?
  • BucksLady
    BucksLady Posts: 567 Forumite
    I would listen to your instincts which seem to be telling you that something is wrong. My feeling is that if you were important to him, he would contact. To be honest, I think the word 'busy' is just an excuse. When we care about someone, we make time for them.
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