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Allowances For Outgoings?
sheralea69
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Hi,
I'm in a position where I have to declare bankruptcy at short notice, complicated situation but I have no option and owe somewhere in the region on £43k to creditors following my recent divorce.
I live in a rented 3 bedroom house with my new partner. We both work. I have 2 children aged 10 and 13 which I have for 2 nights a week. I pay 280 a month child maintenance but have considerable travelling costs to collect them and drop them back as my ex will not do any of it. I earn approx £1950 a month net, my partner approx £1150.
I have the forms downloaded but am after some guidance as to what the receiver will regard as reasonable outgoings. I am sure that what I spend at the moment will not be deemed as acceptable.
Does the receiver have guidelines that they work to, and how can I find these?
My intention is not to cheat anyone out of what I rightly owe, but at the same time don't want to miss anything or under estimate my outgoings.
Any help would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
I'm in a position where I have to declare bankruptcy at short notice, complicated situation but I have no option and owe somewhere in the region on £43k to creditors following my recent divorce.
I live in a rented 3 bedroom house with my new partner. We both work. I have 2 children aged 10 and 13 which I have for 2 nights a week. I pay 280 a month child maintenance but have considerable travelling costs to collect them and drop them back as my ex will not do any of it. I earn approx £1950 a month net, my partner approx £1150.
I have the forms downloaded but am after some guidance as to what the receiver will regard as reasonable outgoings. I am sure that what I spend at the moment will not be deemed as acceptable.
Does the receiver have guidelines that they work to, and how can I find these?
My intention is not to cheat anyone out of what I rightly owe, but at the same time don't want to miss anything or under estimate my outgoings.
Any help would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
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IVA & fee charging DMP companies: Profits from misery, motivated ONLY by greed0 -
They do have guidelines, but the best thing todo is chuck up your SOA using the following tool to generate it http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php
We can then help you make it so you don't struggle, the OR isn't really interested in your partners income other than they would expect a contribution from them towards the household running costs.
Somethings not allowed in bankruptcy are SkyTV, pocket money, gym memberships etc so if you have them and want to keep them - the SOA will need juggling to cover these from allowable expenses.0 -
Ok, I've completed my income and expenditure sheet and it comes out like this... Please be honest with me and tell me if it seems reasonable.
My income: £1950 p/m
Partners contribution to household : £600 p/m
Total: £2550 p/m
Outgoings:
Rent - £750
Housekeeping - £400
Electricity and oil - £170 (seems excessive but it's what it is)
Water - £45
Telephone - £40
Travelling & Essential Journeys - £240 (Children live 35 miles away)
Clothing - £80 (myself and children inc school uniforms))
Maintenance payments £279
Council Tax £135
Optician - £10
Prescriptions £10
School clubs/ trips £8
Dentist £10
Haircut and non prescription vitamins for eye condition £25
Car Insurance £41
Car Tax £21
Car repairs / maintenance £30
House insurance £14
Dog insurance (two dogs) £25
Dog food £28
Professional fees £14 (essential)
Dry Cleaning (Uniform)
TV License £12
Window/ gutter cleaner (part of rent agreement) £10
Emergency Fund £40
Parking £10
Childrens Holiday £40
Total £2438
Amount left over £112.000 -
Can you confirm how many people actually live in your household?0
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My partner and I live together in a rented 3 bed semi. I have two children aged 10 and 13 that live with us 2 nights a week minumum plus 4 weeks a year during school holidays. All of this is in a court order.
The ages of the children (and they're boy/girl) make the 3 bed house necessary.0 -
Thanks for that, I assume your wife then is handling her own clothes, haircuts, prescriptions etc?
Parking seems pretty low at £10, is that for when you pick up your children or work or for a parking permit where you live?
Do you not have a mobile phone? that would be an extra £10 per person.0 -
Hello I think food for pets has to come out of your housekeeping/food bill0
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luvchocolate wrote: »Hello I think food for pets has to come out of your housekeeping/food bill
Mine didn't
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egrescrimp wrote: »Mine didn't

Mine did - and the pet insurance, these are discretionary costs unless the dog is a registered guide or disability working dog0 -
Thanks guys for your help so far......
The parking is a general cost when going into town for shopping etc.
I was sure about the dog insurance. Having it avoids vet bills but maybe any mishaps have to be funded from the emergency fund?
I didn't think I could claim for mobiles if you have a land line? All four of us have them - should I put this in?
Does everything else look reasonable? To be fair I spend more in some areas but know I have to be realistic.
Thanks!0
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