For a very special lady i met on MSE

Jens_Honey

Judi wrote: »

Oh Fufu shame on you!:(

He just wants to derail the thread and ruin other people's happiness but we've used MSE long enough to know how to deal with people like him

Georgiegirl256

Jens_Honey wrote: »

Today the video was going in this thread but a certain someone from the MSE team (cant say who just yet) was so impressed with how i did the proposal that it is going to be published on the site for everyone to see. It will be up on Wednesday morning

By the way fufu_banterwaite you disliked the proposal and you're entitled to your opinion but you took it too far with that private message. I dont understand what your gripe is? We are happy, just leave us alone now.

This is why I have my PM's turned off. Some people just feel the need to take their nastiness one step further.

Congrats again OP and I guess all will be revealed on Wednesday! I wonder who you are?!

whitewing

I am looking forward to the video! Congratulations to you both!

At this rate, you'll be able to sell your wedding to Hello!

tomtontom

Abbafan1972 wrote: »

This has to be a wind up surely?

I'm beginning to wonder!

marisco_2

Jens_Honey wrote: »

Today the video was going in this thread but a certain someone from the MSE team (cant say who just yet) was so impressed with how i did the proposal that it is going to be published on the site for everyone to see. It will be up on Wednesday morning

By the way fufu_banterwaite you disliked the proposal and you're entitled to your opinion but you took it too far with that private message. I dont understand what your gripe is? We are happy, just leave us alone now.

I am very sorry to hear that you were subjected to horrible interaction via PM. Such a shame, but I hope it has not put a dampener on what should be a very special time, for yourself and your fianc!

Very pleased to hear that others on the site are thrilled for you both though. Really looking forward to seeing the vid

System

Jens_Honey wrote: »

He just wants to derail the thread and ruin other people's happiness but we've used MSE long enough to know how to deal with people like him

Fufu Banterwaite is currently under investigation from his local council for repeatedly pooing in a plastic bag and throwing it in the dog poo bin. I wouldn't worry about Fufu Banterwaite's opinion.

fufu_banterwaite

Jens_Honey wrote: »

By the way fufu_banterwaite you disliked the proposal and you're entitled to your opinion but you took it too far with that private message. I dont understand what your gripe is? We are happy, just leave us alone now.

Can you tell me what my 'private message' said please? Very odd seeing as the only PM I have sent on here over the past six months was to Zennith to apologise to him as I didn't realise he had depression/anxiety problems...

FatVonD

I'm Spartacus

Soleil_lune

Abbafan1972 wrote: »

This has to be a wind up surely?

I guess we will all find out by the middle of this coming week if it's a wind-up, as the OP said the video (of the proposal?) is going to be posted on here on Wednesday.

It would be a shame if it was a massive wind-up, because the vast majority of people have been very friendly and gracious and supportive, so that will be a lot of people taken in.

I am going against the grain here, and am probably going to be bashed for it, but I'm not one to say things because others have said it or agree because others have agreed. To be honest, I am a bit sceptical about it.

It's not personal to the OP: I am a very sceptical and untrusting person, and I trust very few people, and believe very little that people tell me, unless I see proof. I have never been taken in or conned by any scams or frauds, and I will stick my neck out and say I don't think I ever would be. Quite honestly, when I am sceptical about stuff, and I disbelieve someone, my instincts are usually right. (I'm not saying this particular thing that this thread is about is a wind-up or scam BTW, I was just saying in general...)

I guess time will tell if this is a massive wind-up or if it's genuine.

I am not saying I disbelieve the OP. I am not saying I believe him. It's neither. I haven't seen evidence yet that he is lying, but I haven't seen evidence yet that he is telling the truth.

Like I said, time will tell.

tomtontom

Chill out Tahlullah!

I'm dubious about this PM, sure fufu is a bit of a wind up, but there is no evidence that he sent said message. If he had, and as the OP is apparently in touch with MSE Towers, why has he not been banned?

I wouldn't go shooting down others without knowing your facts first.