Relationship query

MCXtips

i am new to this forum and i have a query about my relation as i am confused that the girl i am with has always left me when the circumstances are bad and expect me a lot to do i always try the things to get normal but everything go in vain . everyone does mistakes but it is said right that the people will only remember the goal you left never will seek through how many goals you saved .
and she also believes that being with me she is making a compromise.
Please tell me what to do ??

DUTR

Adopt a 3 srtikes and out policy.
Relationships shouldn't be a constant headache to you, perhaps both of you having some space to explore others may do you the world of good.

thorsoak

MCXtips wrote: »

i am new to this forum and i have a query about my relation as i am confused that the girl i am with has always left me when the circumstances are bad and expect me a lot to do i always try the things to get normal but everything go in vain . everyone does mistakes but it is said right that the people will only remember the goal you left never will seek through how many goals you saved .
and she also believes that being with me she is making a compromise.
Please tell me what to do ??

Say goodbye dear and amen - here's hoping we meet now & then - it was great fun - but it was just one of those things (to quote Billie Holliday).

Seriously - no good relationship needs work to get things "back to normal" - it does sound as if it has reached the end of its life. So both of your need to reclaim your own separate lives - and start again both on your own.

Morglin

MCXtips wrote: »

i am new to this forum and i have a query about my relation as i am confused that the girl i am with has always left me when the circumstances are bad and expect me a lot to do i always try the things to get normal but everything go in vain . everyone does mistakes but it is said right that the people will only remember the goal you left never will seek through how many goals you saved .
and she also believes that being with me she is making a compromise.
Please tell me what to do ??

I would look for a girl who wants to be with you......this one sounds a nightmare!:eek:

Lin

System

You can only do so much. To do more than you should have to makes you a doormat (open to abuse).

fivetide

Lass sounds like a total bombscare. Run!

atolaas

If someone feels that being in a relationship with you is a "compromise" then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. You should be in a relationship with someone who loves, cares for and respects you. From what you've said this lady doesn't tick any of these boxes. Time to call it a day in my opinion.

susieq87

i wonder what has actually happened for you two to get here. its very easy to blame it on her because you feel like you are trying but what has made her act the way she does and for you to clean up the mess afterwards? thats what i wanna know.

marisco_2

Have some self respect, place real value on yourself and call a day on such a negative connection. Run, Forest, Run and never look back!

I wouldn't even consider remaining involved with someone, who had the darn nerve to suggest that simply being with me, meant that they were compromising themselves. What a horrible thing for her to say to you.